lights on or lights off?

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lights on or lights off?

  1. sex is better with lights on

    56.5%
  2. sex is better with lights off

    31.3%
  3. i'm boring and can't decide

    12.2%
  1. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    what do you prefer when you're fornicating?

    i don't want the lights off - wtf would i be sleeping with a girl who i didn't want to look at?????????
     
  2. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    Doesn't matter to me. I like the light osn / sunlight, but ther are some nights that the mystery of the dark is arousing as well
     
  3. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    i see your point.
     
  4. 1stgenrocks

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    lights on all the way. gotta love doing it in the middle of the afternoon with the sun coming in the window
     
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    Lights on. But I prefer to have afternoon sex than evening sex. :)
     
  6. Vanilla Tarantino

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    I don't care for total darkness (unless blindfolded :naughty: ), so either lights on or soft lighting - lights dimmed or light filtering in from another room.
     
  7. Jacy

    Jacy red lipstick brigade

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    i'm really visually oriented, so it's important for me to see my boyfriend. the visual stimulation is a big factor in my arousal
     
  8. cman254

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    lights off. night vision goggles.
     
  9. Alaya

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    My top choice would be natural but soft daylight [morning sex, afternoon sex, etc.]. I'm extremely light sensitive [particularly to un-natural light], so I tend to have my lights dim/off in my day to day life.

    Thus, I would prefer some soft lighting, even if it's lamps/soft daylight/candles/lights - but not ridiculously bright. For me though that preference is just an in general, personal preference, not sexual per se. Like PE said though, there's a time and place where lights completely off are great.

    My apartment has dimmers on all my lights, I can always get the lighting just right :bowdown:
     
  10. Amanda Ann

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    I could go either way. Lights off is sensual to me whether you add candle light to the mix or just based on the fact that you have to use other cues besides your visual cues to connect with your partner.

    Lights on is good because it provides you all those visual cues that can prove to be arousing.


    Time, mood, and place for everything..
     
  11. Battles

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    morning sunlight
     
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    i think we always tend to have lights on of some sort (natural light, candles, bedside lamp, etc) probably to make up for the year+ that we did it in the pitch black so that no one else in the house caught us
     
  13. jmezz

    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    Moustache on or off?
     
  14. jmezz

    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    Lights on btw.
     
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    squid braap

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    I'm all about the candles but most girls seem so insecure they can't even handle that much light.
     
  16. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    date an exhibitionist
     
  17. Battles

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    You must pick some fugly girls.
     
  18. jmezz

    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    I don't think I would date a girl who couldn't have sex with the lights on. Even for the first time we'd sleep together I would sorta be turned off by it.

    Yea I get it, the first time you sleep with someone you're self concious about what the person is going to think, but isn't that a lot of the excitement as well? The first time I sleep with someone I want to be able to see their body and take in every detail. After all the build-up leading up to that first time the last thing I want to see is someone's silhouette.

    And this is how it is everytime I sleep with someone. There are so many things about a woman that I love, and that turn me on, I want to be able to see everything.

    I'd try and work with the girl on the issue but if there was no progress being made then I would break up with her.
     
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    You'd still have sex with her though, right? :rofl:
     
  20. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Dim lighting. I'm practically a vampire as it is. My eyes are overly sensitive to light and I rarely have lightbulb light on around me at any time.
     
  21. Pringles

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    I like lights off according to that poll, but in reality I like a little light. Even if it's just a laptop making some dim light. It's nice to see what your fucking, but at the same time I dont need a spotlight on us. It makes it more sensual IMO too with the shadows.
     
  22. innerpeace26

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    Lights on if there's no sunlight coming in, but not too bright.
     
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    usually we do it with lights on or soft lighting (window/candle/pc monitor/tv ect)
    but there are other times where the fact you cant see (must touch) :naughty:
    just gets my blood pumping (verr-nice i lik-eh)
     
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  25. Lokish

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    Couldn't have said it better myself.
     

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