so we've been talking about spawning. Now that I'm 30, I could use some help with the yard and home maintenance. I also like the idea of starting my own small army. anyway, I told the wife that I would like to see her get back into shape before we started trying(ie quit the bc). Dropping the pill alone would probably be enough, she doesn't have far to go. She's just not been hitting the gym as hard as she should. does this make me a complete bastard? I don't think it does.