SRS Letting shit slide off your back - Letting things die.

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  1. Ty Webb

    Ty Webb You don't have to go to college. This isn't Russia

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    I have a problem with holding grudges. Even for stupid shit. I never let people live things down and I can't forgive people for the bad/inconsiderate things they do to me. It bothers me to the a boiling point.

    I wish I could let some shit go.
     
  2. djshotglass

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    The way I see it holding grudges doesn't benefit me any. In fact it just hurts my personal relationships. All that time spent raging does me no good.

    I forgive but I don't forget. That way I'm not an asshole holding everything somebody ever did against them, but they can't screw me over either.
     
  3. BoomBoomBoy

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    It's a total waste of energy, and emotion. The cliche "life is too short" never applied to anything better.
     
  4. Determined

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    ur holding on to it because it hurts so much that ur just aching for a chance to get back at them. true revenge comes in carrying on with those who are a true pleasure to be around and making them feel good
     
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    life's too short, man.
     
  6. Minh Lam

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    Funny this thread came up. Same as me. Im a hard worker at home and work. I always do right by others and get happiness in helping others. But there is always that sneaky person or lazy person who wants to make you look bad.

    I get so angry I cant let it go. I cant move on sometimes. I dont want to ever talk to that person at work ever again.

    what does one do?
     

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