I've been reading Asylum and Vaginarium for 2-3 years now but more so frequently in the past year. I read every thread about people breaking up and moving on and such. I even input advices for people after a breakup. I already know what to do. I'm doing everything right. I haven't initiate any contact with my ex for 7 months now. I made a lot of new friends. I work out and gaining 15 lbs of muscles. I dated 3 girls since my ex and talked to a few more. I'm more focused on my career. I spoiled myself with anything I want to buy. Generally I'm much more happy with myself than when I was with my ex. Yet with all these progress I still feel extremely empty inside and still think about my ex every single day. I came to an understanding that I loved her tremendously but I'm no longer "in love" with her and she's not "the one". I pretty much avoided everything that can relate to her. I never go to her myspace. I never talk to my friends or her friends about her. There is a old pic of us in my car's door pocket that I would not dare touch because I'm scare of looking at it. Sometimes I feel like I'm suppressing my feelings by avoiding to deal with it. Isn't the right thing to do is avoid everything about her? I haven't thrown away any of our old stuffs. They all are put away in places of my room. Sometimes when I open a drawer and see a pic of her, I'd look away and close the drawer immediately. The problem with me about falling for another girl is that I would be interested in them in the beginning but my interest drop after 2-3 months. I'm constantly comparing them to my ex, not fun enough, not pretty enough. I still have a lot of resentment toward my ex because our breakup was very bitter. I know all I need is time to forget but it has been a year since our breakup and I feel like I'm haven't truly let go. We dated for six years.