Let's talk body language

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  1. skelm

    skelm New Member

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    The discussion of body language and using it before approaching a person often comes up however I haven't seen much discussion mentioning the ACTUAL body language to employ.

    I think I understand a lot more about body language then most however I am very interested in resources or discussions about this to help further my knowledge. Help please!
     
  2. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    the basics for men:

    slow down your movements

    head high, shoulders back

    take up as much space as possible

    I've experimented with exaggerated dominant body language and found it to be quite effective.
     
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    explain?
     
  4. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    everything i mentioned done together in an exaggerated, almost comical fashion

    i got good responses but in general felt like a tool so its not something i do regularly

    it doesn't come naturally and i don't like having to consciously focus on my body language that much

    the important thing is to get to the point that you "default" body language isn't communicating weakness or submission
     

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