Let's cut the fucking bullshit - Do women ever break up with a guy...

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by Falconer, Dec 9, 2009.

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Do women ever dump a guy when there is NOT another guy in the picture?

  1. No, there is always another guy if a woman ends a relationship. Women HATE being alone.

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  2. Yes, but only RARELY, like when the chick needs to exit ASAP (cases of abuse, etc.)

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  3. Yes, women may dump a guy even if there isnt another guy in the picture. Maybe she just got bored

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  1. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    when there's NOT another guy somehow involved?

    - met another guy they are more attracted to
    - pining over an ex
    - went camping with 3 friends
    - 5 black guys
    - think they have a shot with a more exciting guy
    - cheated and are now in love with the cheatee
    - etc.
     
  2. Viper

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    Do guys? :rofl:

    Most of the time, it looks to me like people wring the ever loving dogshit out of a relationship until they are just too sick of each other to muster the strength to move forward and by that time, there's usually another guy/girl in the scene for both of them which becomes the catalyst and the excuse for them to move on.

    But you know what? I can think of one girl right now who just recently ended shit and she didn't have another guy on the lam.
     
  3. Falconer

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    Shit. Good point.

    Well...

    Guys will get bored with a relationship and then start cheating not really caring if they got caught, and then when they find someone else they like, THEN they dump the girl.

    Girls do the same thing.

    This thread has no point.

    Sorry everyone.
     
  4. Viper

    Viper OT Supporter

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    Most of your threads have no point. But that's why we love you.
     
  5. Savage5point0

    Savage5point0 Im an asshole.

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    Dont let go of the vine youre swinging on until you have a good grip on the next one. :dunno:
     
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    personally, im completely out and think those of you that are in are weird. Seriously.

    Dont think ive ever had a girl breakup with me for any reason other then i refused to give her what she wanted in terms of increasing commitment
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    of course they do
     
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    :werd:

    Sometimes shit just doesn't work out and there's no one else involved...Period and instead of continuing to be unhappy you do what's best and move on. Sometimes its circumstances, where the guy did XYZ wrong and that was the straw that broke the camels back (screwed your sister, or developed some super bad habits and wouldn't knock it off). Sometimes it could be a matter of moving in different directions (ie, college relationships, LDR etc). Sometimes its just a matter of realizing incompatibilities and realizing people are never gonna fit each other's needs.
     
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    ive never ended a RS bc i had another girl ready to go.
     
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    werd to all that

    lack of compatibility is huge, you either realize this down the road, or you realize it sooner than later and don't feel like getting super invested in something you know will ultimately end because of differences you spot upfront.
     
  12. Falconer

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    I'm talking about "breaking up" from a relationship. How does a relationship not have commitment in the first place?
     
  13. antihero

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    I said "increasing" commitment. Girls always want a relationship thats "going somewhere".

    moving in together, moving accross the country, agreeing to a long distance relationship, family plans etc, not to mention engagement.
     
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    even if you're in a relationship there are plenty of ways to 'increase commitment' :dunno:

    One person begins to feel much more seriously about the person than the other does, wants to move-in together, talk about marriage, talk about kids, talk about relationship "obligations" as the serious-ness of the relationship increases, etc.
     
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    Do men view this as a bad thing? Kind of like "why do they have to have it all or nothing?"
     
  17. Falconer

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    Depends on the guy.

    Some guys lie about wanting things to become serious so they can keep fucking the chick. Other guys want serious things. I don't really bother dating a chick if I don't see long term/marriage potential. Most guys aren't like that, tho.
     
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    I think sometimes the "idea" of another guy is just as strong a motivator as an actual other guy. Like if your boyfriend isn't what you had hoped to find in a long term mate, you want to get rid of him and go in search of another. There is no point to end a happy relationship if there isn't some idea of a "guy" that you want that your current relationship isn't fulfilling anymore. Sometimes there is a name to that guy, and sometimes it's just the longing to keep searching. :dunno:

    So I guess it's always for another guy, one way or the other. Unless she turns into a lesbian. :mamoru:
     
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    i have, but im not female :mamoru:
     
  20. Mitchj

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    im sure it happens

    but someone better is a common reason for breakup
     
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    fuck yes. i dumped my HS bf because i knew that i needed to be by myself to grow as a person in college and make more female friends. after we broke up i was single for like 3 years
     
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    :rofl: I hate it when my sister screws my man!
     
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    WTF is this shit? I'm used to Falconer polls not being pointless garbage. I are disappoint.
     
  24. m3m750

    m3m750 Kickin' it old school

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    Hmm, I wonder if it's a matter of perspective. I can't honestly think of a time I was dumped when she didn't have another guy on deck. So when you break up with a guy, how much time goes by before you date somebody else?
     
  25. JohnJohnJohnson

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    That's silly. There's always a guy on deck. Whether or not you guys are doing great in your relationship, there's a runner-up.

    Even if the girl herself doesn't realize it, there's a runner-up... because her platonic male friend is heterosexual, she's an attractive female, and 1+2=3.
     

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