LGBT Lesbians/Bi on OT

Discussion in 'Lifestyle' started by Britney Spears, Mar 16, 2005.

  1. Britney Spears

    Britney Spears New Member

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    Hi,

    I'm not a lesbian, but I often enough think about a casual encounter with another girl, so I guess that would make me BI.

    I was wondering what the best way to go about finding someone is. I have been rejected once in a bar while I was drunk. The girl was giving off all the signals, and I could have swore she was les... I was so embarrased, I don't want that again.

    Is there anyone here quallified enough give me advice?

    Thx.
     
  2. Ferron

    Ferron So yes, I'll see you there.

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    First, good for you for exploring this. Most people won't ever question their 'happiness'.

    Now to answer your question. Maybe you could try a gay bar in your surrounding area. I say surrounding area, in case you are uncomfortable about being seen there. My final word of advice; don't do this drunk. You want to be in control the situation.

    Good luck and let us know how things go. :bigthumb:
     
  3. Britney Spears

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    I have no idea how to approach a girl. Nor do I know any lesbian bars in my area. :O
     
  4. Ferron

    Ferron So yes, I'll see you there.

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    What is your general area? (State, maybe)
     
  5. PurpleSplat

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    This is just the psychologist part coming out here... but, if people are happy with who they are, why would they question it?
     
  6. Ferron

    Ferron So yes, I'll see you there.

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    Ah, you've hit the fundamental question. How do you really know you are happy unless you question it? Ignorance really is bliss sometimes, though.

    I would say that a truly self-actualizied person would self-reflect enough that they would evaluate all aspects of their lives.

    If people are so happy, why is the idea of a midlife crisis so prevalent? I would guess that a person doesn't really know themselves and what things make them happy, and thus begin to revert back to an earlier time (trying to appear younger).

    Why do we hear stories of people finally admitting in their 30/40s that they are homosexual?

    My point here is that most people probably don't know themselves very well, and keep that self-knowledge on a superficial level. Knowing and accepting yourself will ultimately lead to greater personal happiness.

    It's early still :mamoru:
     
  7. Britney Spears

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    Because maybe part of their 'happiness" is exploring.


    just because one is 'happy' doesn't mean thay are 'content'
     
  8. PurpleSplat

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    To be content is simply to be satisfied. I can be satisfied, but not happy.
     
  9. GND

    GND BBP! OT Supporter

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    Do you approach guys? It's kind of the same.
     
  10. BalkanBabe

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    i must agree with ferron.. you have to be in control of your situation... so next time when you go to your bars, don't get drunk until you find someone and then get drunk with that person. be confident. assertive. and always remember to keep trying, not too many people find someone the first time they look.
     
  11. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    :mamoru:
     
  12. BalkanBabe

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    you better bring your gay ass down here for the summer meat.. you're waaaaaay overdue for a :whip: and :spank: from me.. :x: :mamoru:
     
  13. BalkanBabe

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    britney spears is like so centuries ago.. change your name chick.. it's irritating.. you really wanna get a girl..?? when you got out and see some hottie that you can't help yourself but drool.. walk up to her, put your hand behind her head, grab her hair, gently pull it back and kiss/lick/nibble/bite her neck.. have your other hand resting on her breast, the palm of your hand caressing her nipple.. if she fights back then she's straight - you should back off, apologize, walk away.. if she moans and gets wet, she's belongs to you for the night


    ^^^^ works for me :o
     
  14. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    :eek3: ...I guess I can argue the validity of this method from a feminist perspective. :coolugh:
     
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    Does that mean you finally got it on with Sarah?
     
  16. BalkanBabe

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    she's gettin married in a few months.. and doesn't have time for me.. stupid bitch... i didn't like her anyway.
     
  17. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    You're such a guy. :mamoru:
     
  18. BalkanBabe

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    im listening... :eek4:
     
  19. SantorinA4

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    She is isn't she. :mamoru:
     
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    You'd better speak up, Coco. :noes:
     
  21. Improvolone

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    Would you persue a relationship with a woman? If not, I would say you are heteroflexible.
    :big grin:
     
  22. Praetor

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    Aboslutely not.

    I'd rather use my cock in other places.:mamoru:
     
  23. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    Sorry babe, but when I told you yesterday that I was meeting my boifriend for lunch....we sorta got busy and I never came back. But I did cum :naughty:
     
  24. Ferron

    Ferron So yes, I'll see you there.

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    'I <3 Huckabees' is a great movie that demonstrates my point here, if anyone is interested. :wiggle:

    It's quirky, but the message is true. :)
     
  25. PurpleSplat

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    You're just trying to trick me into watching I <3 Huckabees with you so you can try to mansex me in the dark. :squint:
     

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