LGBT left over pics

Discussion in 'Lifestyle' started by 2500, Sep 26, 2006.

  1. 2500

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    would you guys be pissed if your bf kept dirty pics of his ex? i just got into it with my bf cuz i told him i still kept some pics of a guy i dated for like, a month, almost 2 years ago. he took it personally like i wanted the other guy and my bf wasn't good enough, but, i just used it as a visual while my bf was at work and i needed to get off. i love my bf more than anything, and i would never cheat on him, i just had some porn basically. either way, i erased them, but i was just wondering.
     
  2. XPX

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    there is a reason why he is the "ex" ;)
    things didn't work out with him and now you are with this new guy...tell him that.
     
  3. 2500

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    i did, but he HATES this guy. i didn't even date this guy really. i met him online. he lived in arizona, i lived in chicago. we had an "online" bullshit thing for like, a month, and then i was like "um, yeah, your immature, and, we live 1800 miles apart." we've never met, we've talked on the phone once, and this was 2 years ago. i never thought this would be a problem since i absolutely don't like this other person, i just wanted a visual.
     
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    your bf is over reacting, slap him in the head and tell her to grow a pair...
     
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    His name wasnt Pat (Patrick), was it? :noes:
     
  6. 2500

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    haha, nah, it wasn't patrick.
    and i did tell him he was over reacting, but he doesn't see it cuz hes taking it personally. he said "well, i get you off just fine, i don't see why you need him also." ugh, he said that he doesn't even think of anyone else while he masterbates cuz he'd feel like he was cheating. i dunno, i doubt its just me, but, when i'm horny, my imagination runs wild, lol. i love putting myself into fantasies, but thats all it is, a fantasy. when i'm done, i close the window, and thats that. i always love my boyfriend, i never think "oh, i'd like this other guy more" or anything, its just, a visual. but he doesn't see it that way.
     
  7. 2500

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    well, i don't jack off much anymore. me and my bf, do, stuff, at least 4 or 5 times a day, lol. i've jacked off 3 times in the 2 months i've lived here. i keep my porn on an external HD, not on my comp, and i've prolly looked at them twice since i moved here. its not like i keep this stuff on my desktop and stare at them all day, lol
     
  8. tony

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    i would be :naughty:
     
  9. Faghot

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    tell him to grow up and stop being insecure.
     
  10. ManyHamsters

    ManyHamsters There are necessary pursuits... but poetry, beauty

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    jealousy is so hot
     
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    hahaha, yeah, basically what it stems from.
     
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    try telling him that if you had hot pics of him then you wouldnt need to use the other pics, then say its not like i'm dating him, i'm dating you cause i love you, and your hot, so strip naked and get the camera baby!
     
  13. 2500

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    i do have pics of him also, and i look at those too. and i do tell him that. i tell him that all the time. i say "think one step past where your stopping. your stopping at 'you have pics of this guy.' so now say 'you have pics of this guy, but you moved 600 miles to be with me and you love me.' i tell him to think that way, because its true. i may like to get off to some porn, but, i love him more than anything, i'm with him, and i don't have the slightest interest in anyone, nor will i. but, even him thinking about it gets him all frustrated and in a bad mood. ugh..... jealousy will drive you mad. (moulin rouge, lol)
     
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    you could just get rid of the pics in front of him and apologize for lustinly looking at someone else or something, not fighting is the best way to be happy imo
     
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    i did get rid of them. and we got into it again tonight cuz he read this thread, and just thinking about it, made him get all huffy puffy. we were having an awesome, fun, night, and him just thinking made him get all upset. it really disapoints me, cuz we've been together for 3 months now, and it has been the best 3 months ever. we never got into arguments, always had fun together, and now this stupid bullshit, even after me deleting all my porn, is still ruining our time together.
     
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    care to elaborate?
     
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    Save yourself the time and frustration and dump him. You both are not ready for a relationship... in my professional opinion.
     
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    your "professional opinion" means about as much to me as the cat shit in the litter box does. you my friend, will spend the rest of your life alone, and i'm guessing within the next, 3 years, you hang yourself because you can't stand the embarassment of being alive anymore..... in my professional opinion.
     
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    :hsugh: meow
     
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    i just don't like people who think they know all, telling me what to do in a situation they know nothing about, then arrogantly calling themselves "professional." needless to say, i handled it my way, and everything is perfect again. so, obviously his "professional" opinion is worth cat shit to me.
     
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    If you do not want people's opinions you should not ask for them....

    I know as much as everyone else who gave their opinion; just because you do not like my opinion doesn't mean I am not entitled to it. I did not arrogantly call myself a professional.... It's what I do for a living as a therapist... specifically relationship and sex therapy.

    Your reaction speaks volumes tha you wish misery and death on someone who doesn't tell you what you want to hear on an internet forum. I hope your relationship does work out and all stays perfect, but my opinion came from the "facts" you gave; which were indicative of a relationship doomed due to miscommunication, obsession, and jealousy - after only three months. Good luck and unlike you I wish ... you the best.
     

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