lazy virgins?

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  1. toezter

    toezter New Member

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    i really need to see the 40 year old virgin.

    i'm 21, straight, and virgin (not religious). anyone else feel the 'lazyness' of getting laid?
     
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    k0in b4hd New Member

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    the fear of having sex is great indeed
     
  3. scaryice

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    improving yourself > laziness

    You're only young for so long. Don't waste those years.
     
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    i just have that fear of becoming a father.....
     
  5. BenjiBean

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    i wouldn't call virgin lazy, just scared of their inexperience
     
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    who? Guest

    same situation as thread starter...and yeah i know what you mean about the lazy feeling, but deep down, i KNOW it's the feeling of fear....
    i've turned down numerous times where i couldve had sex and punch myself later for it
    but starting now, im going all the way with any opportunity i see... as another poster said, dont waste your younger years

    rofl at lack of colors and AV's in this thread
     
  7. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    Another reality apparently
    Our society makes sex to be something its not.

    It is great and wonderful, and with the right person it is the greatest combination of physical and emotional pleasure. But its nothing to worry about.

    Nothing wrong being a virgin and nothing wrong with being in no hurry to have sex. When it happens it happens, and then you will see how different it is from your preconceived notions.

    Dont stress, dont fear, just do your thing...
     
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    I was reeeaally nervous when I first had sex. Only because my girlfriend had experience before me....so I was worried aobut my performance because I didn't want to....disappoint her.

    My head fucked with me off and on for a while....but when I was able to stop over-thinking things....aparently I had absolutely NOTHING to worry about.

    you're right :hsd:
     
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    HuskiRuski Cardinal Fan

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    "don't put the pussy on a pedistal"

    truer words may never have been spoken.
     
  10. Tiberium

    Tiberium Active Member

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    ^ easier said than done
     
  11. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    no shit...you can tell someone that all you want, but you just cant really understand that statement until you have had some sexual experience. Till then pussy is obviously on a pedestal, because it is something you want but havent yet had. Like a little kid reaching up to the counter to get the cookies that are just out of reach...
     
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    in for same feeling. Only I'm not as old thank god.
     
  13. toezter

    toezter New Member

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    hell, i've never had a girl friend.

    the only 'fear' i have is getting some sort of STD or impregnating a girl (my biggest fear). otherwise rejection, unable to please, premature ejac, or any other common bed fears isn't an issue for me.

    i actually refused once, but that was because i was drunk at 5am with some girl i did NOT want to see in the morning/afternoon sober.

    perhaps i should start dating and see what happens.
     
  14. sportsjunkie

    sportsjunkie OT Supporter

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    i wouldn't call it "lazyness"

    but for one, i fear the consequences (not saying there are consequences 24/7)...

    and I just haven't find a person i really connect with to have sex

    besides, at this point in my life, it's not a priority and not that important
     
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    BiG_aL New Member

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    I think I fear rejection the most
     
  16. Fiya

    Fiya Guest

    Not enough dominant women out there :o
     
  17. R.Kelly

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    shit sucks man. Im scared just because i dont want the girl to be like "wow, this guy SUCKS" or some shit.
     
  18. xeon

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    I'm not a virgin but I'm too lazy to try to get a date. I really lost confidence in myself recently.
     

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