last thread im gonna make about my ex-gf: should i ever unblock her/ make contact?

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  1. WeRdToYoMoThA

    WeRdToYoMoThA Girlies on Standby, Waiting to say Hi

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    Well? Cliffs: we broke up on sunday 4/17 after 1.5 years of dating. she told me she didnt feel the same way about me as she used to. since then, we have talked for a total of maybe 5 minutes, but we didnt leave it on very bad terms (at first i yelled at her and told her i never wanted to see her again, then told her that i said what i said out of anger, and didnt mean all that). since then, a former friend of mine keeps telling people that he is dating my ex, she denies it (i know this through another person, i didnt ask her myself). This guy also called me a few days ago and told me "thanks for the condoms" (referring to condoms i left in her room a few weeks ago). I blocked him, a few other former friends involved, and my ex from AIM.

    should i ever unblock her? her bday is in july, should i email her or call her and tell her habby birthday? or should i base that off of whehter or not she emails me or calls me to tell me happy bday (its 5/12)?

    i am more or less over the breakup... i dont miss her exactly, but rather the things we did (sexually). when i think about her, it has more to do with the fact that i miss seeing her naked/getting head from her, rather than missing the times we spent together. i do think about her a lot, but again, its all the sexual things.

    if i do unblock her, what do i tell her afterwards if she asks why i havent been online for weeks/months (obviously she will know that i blocked her)
     
  2. akboarder24

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    Don't even make contact. Sounds like enough fake bullshit was flying around, and if you go back it'll just cause more problems. Just leave it and let it die. You'll be glad when one day you realized you haven't even thought about her in the past year or whatever.
     
  3. oradii

    oradii www.oteampress.com

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    i agree, just let it go and be done with... you can get some ass elsewhere
     
  4. The Scientist

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    :hs: No, do not contact her on her birthday. There's no need. So what if it eats her up inside that you know it is and don't care enough to tell her Happy Birthday. It's about time she gets a taste of her own medicine. There's no need to unblock her. Exes are exes for a reason. Leave it at that.
     
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    just live your own life and forget about hers.. its not worth the drama and effort
     
  6. lauren

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    if you have to go out of your way and change how you live your life bc of her...then she got the best of you in the end.

    just live your life. if you dont like peoples comments, block them, or if you cant control yourself from saying inappropriet things to them, block them, otherwise if you are capable of being mature and civil, keep them on.

    its aim....it shouldnt be this dramatic.
     
  7. WeRdToYoMoThA

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    a guy that claims he is dating her called me yesterday and said "thanks for the condoms" (i left some in her room a few weeks ago) :squint:
     
  8. Muricane

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    Leave her blocked and move on.

    Best thing for everyone involved.
     
  9. WeRdToYoMoThA

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    and if she calls me/emails me on May 12 to tell me happy bday?

    if she calls me at all? do i answer?
     
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    if you can be civil and WANT to talk to her, sure, answer her call.

    as for the dude calling you, thats just him being imature. it speaks more about him and your ex than is does about you.
     
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    fuck her you don't need shit from her, and as for the dude that called you kick the shit out of him and ask him if he likes eating your left-overs. you shouldn't let anyone disrespect you like that
     
  12. WeRdToYoMoThA

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    if he brings it up, ill ask him how my dick tastes :o
     
  13. lauren

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    dude, just let it go. it takes a bigger man to brush it off. they are just trying to get a rise out of you. dont give them what they want.
     
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    i wont go all ape shit and hit him or anything. just make my comment and walk away
     
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    because youre a pussy. a real man would have broken his face when the whole thing first started.

    you're a disgrace to us, Russians.
     
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    ok, glad to hear you wil keep your cool. my point is that you dont alway have to have the last word.

    but what do i know? haha since thats what im doing right now...last word bs. good luck regardless.
     
  17. WeRdToYoMoThA

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    shut up
     
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    i wont go out of my way to say anything, but if he does that again, ill tell him that
     
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    Just shut up
     
  20. Muricane

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    Personally I wouldn't answer it, but if you HAVE to (as it seems you think you do), be very, very brief.

    Under no circumstances should you call/email/im her, not even her b-day. You're broken up, not friends.
     
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    dot dot.
     
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    I would unblock her. She probably isn't dating the other guy. If she did why would she lie about it. You don't have to need her, but never be the asshole. I mean if you stay friends with her maybe she can find a girl for you.
     
  24. Muricane

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    All the advice contrary to this, and I guarantee he listens to you.

    I went through what you're going through about 5 years ago, I wish I had someone giving me the very same advice I'm giving you, everything would've gone far easier. But ultimately, we learn from our own mistakes...if you contact her, at least you'll learn something.

    "Most people learn from their own mistakes. A really smart person can learn from other peoples mistakes."
     
  25. DagoRcR

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    You're going to college in a few months, there are PLENTY of hot girls there. Drop her, and never look back
     

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