last night was every man's nightmare...uuhh!

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  1. MIK3

    MIK3 New Member

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    ok long story short.

    my just recent past relationship for 3 years, it was never needed to wear a condom...now i'm in a new relationship which this girl isn't on BC and i need to wear a condom. well it happened...i couldn't stay erect after a few minutes of sex.

    anyone know any tips or different styles of condoms, with more "feeling" to prevent this from happening again..

    thanks..
     
  2. kai-li

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    Omg, I love the Trojan Supra Condoms. They are polyurethene and very thin, best part about them is that they are so warm the second you put them on. I have a latex allergy so these were a god send... I won't let anyone near me if they don't have one of those....
     
  3. Rocky6535

    Rocky6535 Now, let me see you smile...

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    Supra is too tight to me. A lot smaller than regular condoms. The best thing you can do is try to get more turned on. If you can't get it up for even one round of sex, and you don't have an impotence problem, then she's probably just not attractive enough to you. Man that does sound like a nightmare though...
     
  4. MIK3

    MIK3 New Member

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    anything else we do i have no problems down there...maybe i'll just try a few other things before i jump to any conclusions. cause this girl really is beautiful...so i dunno. i think i'm just putting to much pressure on myself...
     
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    i had that same thing dude... just relax and dont worry about it. if you really want to try and get used to it... masterbate to hardness, put it on, and keep masterbating and try to stay hard. prolly not the best feeling in the world since condoms and masterbation dont mate well.. but it will get u used to feeling it on while being turned on and hard.

    its more mental then anything.
     
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    I agree
     
  7. JohnDoe

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    get her on BC?
     
  8. MIK3

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    i'm working on it
     
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    yeah, my gf is just getting used to her BC pill so she wants me to stay wrapped up. It fucking blows! :eek4: I know it is much safer this way, but it is such a buzzkill when you have to stop turning each other on to unwrap a condom, put it on, etc...
     
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    oh yeah, to answer your question, just try not to think about it. It's all just a mental game
     
  11. MIK3

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    you said it brother..
     
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    arent the supras not as safe?
     
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    They break easy.. I wouldn't trust 'em.:eek3:
     
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    damn......i never used a condom b4 (sob)
     
  16. cuz

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    my bf and i had the same problem as you, we never used a condom since we both dont like it as much, but i had a pregnency scare (i wasnt on bc at the time) so i made him wear one the next time we had sex after i found out everything was okay, and he couldnt keep it up for as long as he used to w/o one. but now im on bc and i have been for a few years and its all good. so i guess moral of the story is, get this girl on bc and if not for your wee wee to stay alive longer, to be extra careful
     
  17. SeanRinVA

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    It's not an impodence thing. I have been married for nearly 15 years. Anytime I wore a condom, I had trouble staying up, or finishing. Thank god for the big snip (after baby #6), no more condoms - evar!
     
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    fawkin A, "baby #6"
     
  19. punkerjim

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    yeah... that sucks

    there are tons of condoms out there with different sensations and everythign else... try them all... the only ones i ever had a problem with were durex ones... i mean, i'm not *that* big but these things were super tight and i believe they were a larger size.
     
  20. punkerjim

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    baby #1 is on the way for me... and, two weeks after she's due, i have my appointment for my snipping
     
  21. boibleu22

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    ive had a whole package of supras break on me. granted, they are thin as hell, but they suck.

    i hate condoms.
     
  22. invictus

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    durex ones = :(
     
  23. TheGrudge

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    I've been in this sort of situation as well. My problem is that I'm big, so the only condoms that fit me are magnums... and they seem to alow no fealing at all. I can't find thin condoms that are big enough, and I"d be too afraid of them breaking anyway. BC is the way to go.

    My girl used to take the depo shot, but it caused alot of mood problems and she developed anger problems on it. She's on the patch now, and it works fine.

    Sex just feels fake and almost pointless with a condom on. She might as well just use a dildo because the guy can barely feel anything and she's not fealing direct skin contact from the guy.
     
  24. drtyregin

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    wow, jfc, DURING?, what does she look like?
     

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