SRS lame or smart?

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  1. Charles Queensferry

    Charles Queensferry OT Supporter

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    Alright, need a little "apporach advice" here.

    I went to get some Japanese takeout last night, hostess there was really cute. We made a little small talk, chit-chatted for maybe 2 minutes, then my food was ready and I left.

    After leaving, I thought to myself 'shit, should have seen if she was seeing anyone'...

    So, what say you, OT. Should I go back to the resturant, which I would think would be kinda stalkerish/desperate...or just give her a call at the resturant (she's the one that answers the phone there as well)? Im 99% sure she will remember who I am, because that place was DEAD at 7pm, and not a place where people usually order take out.
     
  2. teo

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    Order take-out another night. You're not stalking anything other than your next meal... which can be conveniently caught by ordering off the menu. I wouldn't think highly of some guy who wouldn't even show his face to ask if I was seeing someone.
     
  3. Japan Four

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    just talk to her again, and ask if she wants to hang out sometime.
     
  4. Charles Queensferry

    Charles Queensferry OT Supporter

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    alright, just needed a few opinions, im gonna try to go there sometime next week.
     
  5. johan

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    def don't do it by phone.

    You're not picking her up like making a order for product...you're making personal contact.

    Show up tomorrow night for more food, and be charming and genuine.
     
  6. erynne936

    erynne936 my av is a car, but i'm a girl. stop calling me b OT Supporter

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    definitely order more takeout, try to do it on another slow night so she has time to talk. over the phone seems weird and what if she doesn't remember you right away - that would be awkward. good luck! :)
     

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