Ladies would you let a male friend you're not attracted to give you head?

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by AlextheDroog, Dec 4, 2007.

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Would you let a male friend you're not attracted to give you head?

  1. yes without regrets

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    34.0%
  2. yes but i'd worry that it would change our relationship

    4 vote(s)
    7.5%
  3. no..but I may regret turning down the head later on

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    5.7%
  4. no..if i'm not attracted to him

    28 vote(s)
    52.8%
  1. AlextheDroog

    AlextheDroog Come and get one in the yarbles, if ya have any ya

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    you're hanging out and having a good time like you've done a thousand times before but this time your male friend says that he wants to eat your pussy and its been something he's been wanting to do for a long time.

    remember this is a not only a man your really aren't attracted too BUT he's a really good friend too.

    so would you let him do it?
     
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  2. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    if it was someone i knew was clean, i trusted not to get attatched to the sex, and wasn't goign to expect relationship, then yeah.
     
  3. Marmot

    Marmot Guest

    I've had this thought on my mind for the last 3 days :eek3:

    I'm pretty sure I'm just going to flat out ask her. She's been compaining that she has "no prospects" and she "just wants to be physical with someone." She spent the last 2 years houding a gay guy and never got any :mamoru:

    I'm looking forward to the replies.
     
  4. sportsjunkie

    sportsjunkie OT Supporter

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    yep

    done it and no regrets.
     
  5. Isamu

    Isamu New Member

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    i may have to ask one of my female friends... just to see the results..
    lol
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    No. If I'm not attracted to you and especially because you are just my friend I don't want you eating me out.
     
  7. NiggaPHX420

    NiggaPHX420 OT Supporter

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    I need to ask from friends this question :o
     
  8. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    Nope, if I'm not attracted to a guy then I don't want him touching me.
     
  9. ballerman230

    ballerman230 just a pale blue dot

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    :rofl:

    in for hilarity if the threadstarter or Marmot try this out.
     
  10. DarkAngel19

    DarkAngel19 New Member

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    No way, but I'm weird about head... I really have to be relaxed and trust the guy, and most often I only get turned on from giving HIM head, which I would never do with a guy not my boyfriend. So you can discard my answer if you like:)

    However, I do have a best guy friend that I really adore and am very attracted to, but I would still never say yes. Friendship would change instantly and that's something I am not interested in. I guess it would depend on how good of friends you are.

    DA
     
  11. Viper

    Viper OT Supporter

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    I voted, but that's just because I wanted to see the poll results. lol
     
  12. Marmot

    Marmot Guest

    Next time we hang out drunk (and I remember to ask) after going out, I'll give it a shot. She said she hates giving head but loves getting it.
    I'll make another thread for hilarity when I get shot down.
     
  13. kiri

    kiri New Member

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  15. Viper

    Viper OT Supporter

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    So..if a girl allows a guy to touch her, does that mean she is attracted to him?
     
  16. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    I voted "yes" so the poll would stay visible without clicking.

    So it's actually -1 "yes without regrets".
     
  17. Viper

    Viper OT Supporter

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    :rofl:

    that's what I voted too.
     
  18. kiri

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    touch intimately, yes

    it's not like i won't hug ugly people or something :rofl:
     
  19. Viper

    Viper OT Supporter

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    I was just curious. What kinds of touches are only reserved for guys you are attracted to?

    I'm looking for nonchalant ones here because I intend to stop cold approaching altogether and just go up and touch random girls until I get a positive response.
     
  20. kiri

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    well if you go up and touch random girls, that has nothing to do with them allowing you to touch them. i was more thinking of after i already know somebody...

    i reserve "intimate" touching for someone i want to be with (which obviously entails me being attracted to them). but the fact that someone is attractive doesn't give them automatic permission to touch me any way they want. i've had hot guys come up and pinch me in bars and i'm still like :ugh2:

    i guess i was thinking about your question wrong.
     
  21. Viper

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    :rofl:

    I was just fucking around.

    But I am still curious which types of touch are reserved only for guys you are attracted to. I'm not talking about rude, dick-headed guys who pinch your ass or something.
     
  22. kiri

    kiri New Member

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    not sure exactly what you mean... some types of touch are appropriate for boyfriend, other types are appropriate for friend. among non-bf's it doesn't matter if they're attractive or not, there's a specific range of touch that is appropriate IMO
     
  23. Viper

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    Well, I'm not interested in boyfriend types of touch. It's pretyy much assumed that a boyfriend is going to be able to touch you everywhere, in any way, given the moment is right/it's not abuse/whatever.

    Maybe I'm more curious about where someone you are NOT attracted to you CAN'T touch or HOW they CAN'T touch you? What do you view as inappropriate touching by someone you aren't attracted to, that you would let someone you WERE attracted to (but wasn't dating) do and/or enjoy?
     
  24. kiri

    kiri New Member

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    it really doesn't have to do with attractiveness at that point. assuming i'm not interested in dating any of these people, if they're a friend i'd be comfortable with them putting their arm around me briefly (around shoulder or waist), hugs, pecks on the cheek, etc. if i don't know them (attractive or not), i'd be comfortable with basically one hand touch- on my shoulder, on my arm, but obviously not legs, ass, stomach, etc.

    if i'm dating someone, i'm verrrry touchy, but if i'm not (and not interested in dating them) then i don't like being touched. if i AM interested in them, but we're not dating yet, then almost any physical contact is fun and exciting.
     
  25. just tat

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    i voten no. but i'm weird about getting head. i'd much rather give it. i've only ever let two guys do it.
     

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