Ladies::What's the main reason?

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  1. Gregsaidthat

    Gregsaidthat "Individuality is the new conformity"

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    For some reason this question I'm about to ask just popped in my head.

    What are "your" main reasons for turning down men?

     
  2. fray

    fray New Member

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    That question is going to net you so many answers...or very broad answers, like mine:

    Because they don't fit what I'm looking for or they come off like an ass.
     
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    cuz they are not feeling the attraction for ya.
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    It could be a million things though:
    this guy is too cocky for his own good and not even that special
    this guy has nothing interesting to talk about, I'm bored
    this guy is not funny enough
    all the way to
    this guy is just not attractive
     
  5. Spiritus

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    The Matrix Four: What Woman Want


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  6. Gregsaidthat

    Gregsaidthat "Individuality is the new conformity"

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    Couldn't that mean he is confident?
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    there's a HUGE difference between cocky and confident, and most women recognize the difference. Cocky guys are those dicks who walk around with a strut thinking they are god's gift to women. A guy who is confident knows deep down that he is a great catch and exudes it, but not in a forceful way. He does so by showing charismatic characteristics.
     
  8. Spiritus

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    how does a great guy show he is great when he is a perfect stranger?
     
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    just bad vibes in general... i can usually sense if i'm not going to hit it off with someone or if they're creepy
     
  10. Gregsaidthat

    Gregsaidthat "Individuality is the new conformity"

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    Good question.
     
  11. Gregsaidthat

    Gregsaidthat "Individuality is the new conformity"

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    That's the way that I was looking at it too.

    Just didn't know if I was the only one thinking that way.
     
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    creepy or dumb
     
  13. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    I am of the opinion that women don't really understand why they are attracted or not attracted to certain men.

    I've heard women say things like "He's perfect for me, I wish I liked him that way" or "Why do I only have feelings for guys that treat me like shit?"
     
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    if he is really insecure...Or too eager to get in my pants...or shallow...and if we are too different-have nothing in common
     
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    By being great...casually; and slowly become friends with me. Be very subtle about the fact that he is interested until we've talked a bit and gotten to be friends. Depends on the guy/girl. But this is how I got to know the guy I'm with... I wasn't really attracted to him at first sight.
     
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    I usually only turn down the men who have a dead end job, no education, and little to no motivation to succeed in life. Where I'm from they're a dime a dozen.
    I also turn down the anti-social clingy guys, because that's just not who I am.
     
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    Chemistry and interests
     
  18. Spiritus

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    That is how my first relationship went.

    Was great; for awhile.

    Could have been perfect; if it was someone else.
     
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    Jacy red lipstick brigade

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    usually when a guy is unattractive .. not neccesarily physically unattractive

    some characteristics that make a person unattractive me:
    - arrogant
    - insecure
    - seems to be trying too hard to fit a certain image
     
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    Hahaha, that arrogant bastard. I am going to have to try to curb that. I know I get really arrogant and hyper. I love getting a girls temper going and getting in arguments with them though.

    Insecure, uh I dont suspect it. I generally get the impression people think im crazy

    Image, I have none. I need queer eye for strait guy
     
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    From this thread...
    http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=3035038&page=2

    Are you confirming what he's saying or not?
     
  22. Spiritus

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    From my perspective, yes.

    I think it is a tragedy that it is a priority. It should only just be a major factor.

    Like, if I am talking to a girl and I am like, so what do you do? And she is like, a student or working, best kind.

    But if they do nothing, it is complete turn off. I guess it goes for both sexes.

    Now I know there are woman that do not give a shit about that. But they aren't gonna join my team.
     
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    Well, I could do without a man on a power trip, and "money" doesn't necessarily have to be excessive amounts - just having enough for necessitites and then some. I guess there's some kinda of truth in it.
     
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    Basically you are saying you want a man who is active and doing something with his life.

    thats cool :wiggle:
     

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