FRK ladies, what would grab your attention in a posting for a FWB

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  1. jestre

    jestre New Member

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    Guess, I should explain myself....

    I am married, happily, plan to stay that way.
    the wife and I have an open arrangement when it comes to sexual relationships with others.

    She is good with me finding a FWB as long as she knows what goes on. I know about guys she is with and so on.

    so, my question is, I would like to create a CL listing looking for married or otherwise in a LTR type woman.

    But, not a 1 night stand, I would like this more as an on going thing.

    Is there any wording that would make this sound good to you?

    I'm not necessarily looking for intercourse initially, more oral. giving and receiving.


    Is there any wording that would make this sound good to you?

    To describe myself is pretty easy, but nothing that stands out.
    5'10, shaved head, green eyes, average build (155lbs).

    Looks are not that important, as enthusiasm is worth so much more.

    I'm not will to post my face pic on CL, but would email interested women.
    Also, I'm pretty sure most girls aren't interested in penis pics, but again, would provide if asked.


    sorry for rambling....
     
  2. Lech

    Lech Rhymes with fetch.

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    Sounds great, and you are the king of acronyms, but you may have a hard time finding a broad who is willing to have an LTR with a married man, even if his wife is cool with it. I dunno, it seems that they'd either be total sluts into just sex, or they'd want you all to themselves. You need to find some polyamory website.
     
  3. RougeOgre

    RougeOgre FS Librarian and MOD

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    Sorry jestre... no help here. I'd never check an online place for a playmate.:dunno:
     
  4. DarkAngel19

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    I used to belong to a site like that when i was single, with lots of guys asking for sex (which is basically what you are doing, at least to her).

    I responded to the ones with complete sentences, intelligence, specificity, and thought.

    Try this: Looking for a woman to be a sexual partner and explorer with a married man in an open relationship. Not strictly sex, not strictly one night, I'm looking for the whole package in a comfortable and open way. Contact me discretely if you wish at joeschmo blah blah.

    NOT: i want a hot hon3y with big [email protected], mouth like a hoover and wants it in the ass. No strings, just the good stuff, available now.

    Ya? You're looking for a woman, not a piece of meat, right? So try to portray that.

    $0.02

    DA
     
  5. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    my FWB said cl is just filled with cock pics, and she was very clear when she was looking DONT SEND ME COCK PICS. So yeah, dont post one.


    One problem I see is a lot of ladies are going to see married and think cheating, even though you said open marriage. Maybe not mention it in the ad, and bring it up later once you get some dialogue.

    Even offer to let them meet/talk to the wife to satisfy any fears. :dunno:
     
  6. DarkAngel19

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    Actually, and I think this is just a matter of opinion, but I would be pissed if I answered an ad and the dude turned out to be married. I would think he is a lying, cheating bastard. But then again, there might be a woman out there who doesn't care.

    Just saying;)

    DA
     
  7. Sandoz

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    Ok, too many acronyms, I have NO idea what's going on.
     
  8. Soybomb

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    Cliffs:
    Thread starter wants to meet girl for bed buddy fun on the intertubes.
    Dark Angel (DA), who may in fact be the only hot girl to use such services, gives original poster (OP) tips on how to write ad text so that he appears less creepy, desperate, illiterate, and socially retarded than most guys who go online looking for sex.

    Freakyshiat (FS) anxiously awaits a successful update complete with filthy story from OP.
    :big grin:
     
  9. MADGREEK

    MADGREEK Bro, not a Bro, Bro, not a Bro, Bro, not a Bro, Br

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    online pussy
     
  10. Bubba Atlantis

    Bubba Atlantis New Member

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    OP stands for both online pussy and original poster :wiggle:

    In FS I rarely, if ever see it used for Online Pussy...that is more of a main forum thing....we have more respect for people in FS :mamoru:
     
  11. Sandoz

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    Thanks guys!

    I just realized that CL means Craigslist (?), but what's a FWB?
     
  12. Bubba Atlantis

    Bubba Atlantis New Member

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    'Friend with Benefits' :)

    You know, like what you and I have :naughty:
     
  13. MADGREEK

    MADGREEK Bro, not a Bro, Bro, not a Bro, Bro, not a Bro, Br

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    ts=thread starter

    this is how i know it
     
  14. Sandoz

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    :rofl:

    You know it. :naughty:
     
  15. Bubba Atlantis

    Bubba Atlantis New Member

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    Yeah, that is more common, but for some reason OP gets used some times as well. It can get confusing and I think it should be ts as well...but oh well :wiggle:
     
  16. Bubba Atlantis

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    :bj: just for you ;)
     
  17. MADGREEK

    MADGREEK Bro, not a Bro, Bro, not a Bro, Bro, not a Bro, Br

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    werd, game on
     
  18. Bubba Atlantis

    Bubba Atlantis New Member

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    you sure have been active today in FS...I don't know that I have seen you around before....welcome to FS :wavey: Look forward to seeing you regularly in here :wiggle:
     
  19. MADGREEK

    MADGREEK Bro, not a Bro, Bro, not a Bro, Bro, not a Bro, Br

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    ya i'm more a fs lurker but i just make be posting in her more, and thanks for the welcome :wavey:
     
  20. Bubba Atlantis

    Bubba Atlantis New Member

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    Always good to have a new poster....far too many people are lurkers...I totally understand why they are but :( they should post more....I have ideas on how to do that, but alas, I can not do it in my position :(
     
  21. MADGREEK

    MADGREEK Bro, not a Bro, Bro, not a Bro, Bro, not a Bro, Br

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    elaborate?
     
  22. Soybomb

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    Where's the fun in degrading and using people you don't respect? :rofl:
     
  23. DarkAngel19

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    Main line derail... Medic!!!

    :)

    DA
     
  24. RougeOgre

    RougeOgre FS Librarian and MOD

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    I think I'd have to agree with you and lildevildee on this one (if I was to look)!
     
  25. jestre

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    I also agree.....I've tried postings using similar wording. but get 0 responses.

    possible need to work on an interesting title...... Online postings are kind of weird, but I'm not a very outgoing person socially. I'd rather just stay in and enjoy the person I'm with.

    Guess, I'm the type of guy who is just to nice.. I can't bring myself to come up to a woman in public and ask her if she wants to fool around.
     

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