Ladies, what do you find attractive?

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  1. SolidRanger

    SolidRanger New Member

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    What do you honestly like? Like what's the single biggest thing about a guy that makes you attracted to him?
     
  2. SolidRanger

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    LOL, I'm actually looking for serious answers. I'm just curious.
     
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    im not a lady but they find a big dick the most attractive
     
  4. D7

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    Are you asking about physical attraction only?
     
  5. SolidRanger

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    No I meant anything: personality, looks, clothes, behavior, mannerisms etc
     
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    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    a sick and twisted sense of humor
     
  7. D7

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    Ambition (goals would be acceptable too) followed closely by intellectual stimulation
     
  8. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I'm being dead serious when I say this:

    A guy who doesn't give a fuck about what women find attractive
     
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    MichelleAnna let it be

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    Intelligence or vulnerability
     
  10. eXyle

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    not a lady, but...

    you'll get the typical "confident, sense of humor, intelligence" type of response. just like guys have different tastes, so do women. heck, even women themselves say they like so-and-so and end up dating something different.

    you are who you are. unless you feel the need to improve upon yourself, then don't worry about it. if you find a girl attractive and want to get to know her/ask her out, then just go do it. her response will give you a better idea as to whether or not she's attracted.
     
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    as a guy, what I've been told most often is my witty sense of humor and the fact I come off as I don't give a shit about what anybody thinks of me.
     
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    did anybody mention a big dick yet?
     
  13. SolidRanger

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    I know all that actually. This thread was mostly just to answer some curiosities, I'm not looking to change myself and try to cater to what I think women want.
     
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    :h5:

    i'll add:

    some women find a man who has outside interests/passionate about something attractive.
     
  15. SolidRanger

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    That is the first time I've ever heard somebody say that, but I've always felt that was true.
     
  16. D7

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    This is ambition. The drive to do something. An ambitious person always has a project of some sort going. People tend to think of this in terms of career however even if that's true, he has interests outside of work as well.
     
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    it's one of the less common ones i've heard. it's one of those hit-or-miss qualities because while a man who's driven and goes after what he desires is attractive, she can also complain that those ambitions/interests/passions take priority over her. as such, she doesn't like that about him even though it was something she initially found attractive (deep down probably still does).

    :werd:

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    i've asked this question before to female friends as well, but more in the "what do you find most attractive about your SO" mold. i got more "accurate" responses that way.
     
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    women don't know what they REALLY want
     
  19. chica&buddies

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    :bowdown: definitely necessary.

    personality > looks, imo... confident but not cocky, just rocking that center line ;)
     
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    :rofl:
     
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    I can't think of one single thing but I guess in general...

    Personality: Sense of humor, confidence (not cocky), gentleman

    Looks: Nice arms, smile, and eyes

    But I think it varies between different guys as to what I like about them.
     
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    agreed, but i felt the answers were more revealing than the TS's question. just because someone has attractive qualities does not mean you're going to date him.

    when asking the TS's question, i heard the usual rhetoric: confidence, sense of humor. however, when I asked about the SO, the answers shed a little more light on what she found attractive enough about him to actually end up dating him. it was funny when asnwers to the first don't match the answers to the second.
     
  23. SolidRanger

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    This is a common reply I hear IRL and on here. So it begs the question, just what do you consider confident and and what do you consider cocky? Where is the line drawn? I ask cause often what I consider to be cockyness seems to be considered confidence by women.

    I admittedly am a little cocky, but it's more of a playful cockyness, not any kind of true arrogance.
     
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    Confidence, to me, would be him coming up to me and talking to me. He holds his head high and not slump around. Cocky is where he thinks he's a "pimp" and constantly brags about how he is good-looking. (That's kind of annoying)
     
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    Now that's what I would call arrogance and any guy who acts like that is a douchebag. What I consider playful cockyness is something that is fun for both people involved. It's meant to be funny and get a positive rise out of someone.
     

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