Ladies...what approach creeps you out?

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  1. TokenBlackGuy

    TokenBlackGuy New Member

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    When your on the internet or out and public there is always "that dude" that wants to try his whack ass pick up line on you or thinks he has a chance with you. So, my question for you is...what creeps you out or just makes you wanna lol when a guy tries to holler/approach you on the net or out in public??
     
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    "hollering"
     
  3. TokenBlackGuy

    TokenBlackGuy New Member

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  4. no lol today

    no lol today Soy la bailarina de la muerta. OT Supporter

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    I fucking hate it when ANY guy tries to make ANY move on me.

    A man should do what he's told. Haha. Seriously. If I say I'm not interested then he better STFU. I'm not an extremely bitchy person & I have BIIIIIIIIIIITCHED dudes out for just fucking going on & on & on with compliments & angles.

    A forward guy goes nowhere. Just shut up & let me drive.

    I initiate every time. A guy who tries to approach just gets knocked down.
     
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    See what happens when you lock off the main forum?
     
  6. no lol today

    no lol today Soy la bailarina de la muerta. OT Supporter

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    I is getting married tho :fawk:
     
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    bimmer318 I'm out of applesauce

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    I find it hard to believe women want to be approached.
     
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    They get really creeped out when I stand there eyeing them while licking my lips and grabing my junk. :hsugh:
     
  10. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    When a guy stares at me and plans his lines in his head.
    When a guy approaches me out of nowhere.

    You have to build tension and get a sort of non-verbal cue from a woman that she could even be interested in you first.
     
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    - when im looked at like a piece of meat
    - when a guy doesnt lay off once i make it clear i am not interested
     
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    Amanda Ann New Member

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    - When a guy doesn't get the hint that I am not interested and still persists on and on

    - When a guy approaches me at a bar/club when it's clearly obvious the theme of my night is having fun with a girl friend or 2
     
  13. Imok

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    -When a guy comes up and says "what's your sign" (hopefully he can read mine).

    -When a guy has to tell you kind of muscle car he has within for first few sentences to try to "impress" you, total turn off to me. If you can only impress me with what you have and not who you are, bye bye.

    -When a guy won't take no for an answer

    (this was from my dating years, I'm in another place now)

    I think a guy or girl just being natural and not putting on any heirs or phony lines is going to have a better chance of "picking up a girl/guy". Genuine is what I like.
     
  14. PureEnergy

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    So I guess its not a good idea to approach a girl in public?
     
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    XaPU!M Active Member

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    What other options are there?
     
  16. BadKat

    BadKat GIVE ME WINE!!

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    :werd: Try eye contact, if you manage eye contact a few times, smile. Maybe make a funny gesture (like, you're at Karaoke and the guy singing is completely tone-deaf, you make a gesture of some sort about how terrible it is, make her laugh). If those get you positive signals, go for it. Maybe go up to the bar at the same time she does and finagle your way to be near her to strike up a convo.

    I personally LIKE being approached if there's been non-verbal cues given. I'm pretty forward (shit, that's how my SO got together :mamoru: It's actually how most of my Ex's and I got together too :o ), but if I'm out at a bar or on the town and it's obvious that someone and I are making some sort of "connection", I'm still not going to go up to HIM. But would enjoy being approached.
     
  17. PureEnergy

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    I never received any non-verbal cue in public. Is there any other options?

    All my life this has never happened to me in public.


    In the bar or club I just went up to them and had success, but I do not do it as often because for some reason I do not want to meet someone in a bar/club. When I tried in the public place it did not work out so well.
    I'm looking for alternatives in meeting someone.
     
  18. bimmer318

    bimmer318 I'm out of applesauce

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    I agree ^ in a public place I never made eye contact. It would make the other party uncomfortable.

    I guess I better stop trying to get out of my way and LOOK for girls and just come as they go.

    I have to admit, coming up to a girl and trying to be direct is a pretty big confidence boost. Then I go about my day and see couples hugging and being affectionate and it just reminds me that I fale.

    :sad2:
     
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    did you propose to him?
     
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    anything coming from a guy who's attention i don't want. :dunno:
     
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    XxvODvxX New Member

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    :rofl: WOW :rofl:
     
  22. XaPU!M

    XaPU!M Active Member

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    You fail because you think things like what I bolded
     
  23. sapient

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    Err, you sure you like guys?
     
  24. sapient

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    This is what you need to change. My roommates and I play a game to help with this: as you walk down the street, try to make eye contact, not immediately look away, and smile at every girl you walk by. It's difficult, but will help you a lot. Keep in mind that absolutely 100% of the girls you practice this on will forget about you within 30 seconds, so don't worry about being self-conscious or feeling weird or creepy. Then, at a club or somewhere you catch a girl looking at you, you'll be used to maintaining the eye contact for a moment and flashing a smile. If she smiles back you're in.
     
  25. Pringles

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    to all the females that say a guy goes on and on your the ones allowing that. Quit being "nice" or trying to "help" him and tell the fucker to fuck off. That will get him to leave, but it's clear you enjoy or warrant the attention when you give playful queues of disqualification.
     

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