Ladies, please provide some insight...

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  1. Ducky_Fresh

    Ducky_Fresh New Member

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    A little background to begin:

    I am 24. She is 28. We met through friends, went out a couple times. Nothing really happened, just gave her a kiss at the end of the second date.

    Then, like 5 days went by. I called, left a message telling her to call me. No call back. I called about 4 or 5 days later, no answer. This time I didn't leave a message.

    THE QUESTION:

    Do you think she's playing games or just not interested anymore?

    I'm definately not calling back at this point, because I just don't care. I just am trying to learn more about the female psyche. :p
     
  2. Riconosuave

    Riconosuave New Member

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    If she was interested, she would have called you already. Move on.
     
  3. AstroGirl

    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    Yeah, she is over it. Move on :(
     
  4. ProneToEpisodes

    ProneToEpisodes New Member

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    Over it or just busy...
     
  5. Ducky_Fresh

    Ducky_Fresh New Member

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    Dammit, where's the women! I want their thoughts. I know what guys think! I am one!
     
  6. AstroGirl

    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    ummm, p2e and I are both women
     
  7. Carpet Liquor

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    pwnt!

    Anyway, yeah she's not interested. If she was, she would make time for you.
     
  8. JordanClarkson

    JordanClarkson OT Supporter

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    It's possible that she's busy. Don't ask a girl to call you back though. They rarely do. Just say you'll be busy for awhile and will try to call her again some other time.
     
  9. Ducky_Fresh

    Ducky_Fresh New Member

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    Ok, damn the interweb! Thanks ladies.
     
  10. RockChick

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    not interested imo.

    sorry.
     
  11. NJGuy

    NJGuy "Fuckmefuckmefuckmefuckmef uckmefuckmefuckmefuckm OT Supporter

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    Or hey! maybe she missed the message. An ignorant roomate. Some other dickhead guy who dont like to compete. You tried once to contact her? Dont be a pussy such a pussy in fear of being rejected. Get ahold of her. Leave anouther msg or make it a point to bump into her soon.

    Dont play that gay ass phone tag crap if you really like her. Go find her and find out.

    If I had to guess tho... she is 28 and your 24 asking these types of questions on the net. She dont like you becuase your not on her level yet ;p
     
  12. Kinks

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    she's not interested, move on. not calling = hint that they're not keen.
     
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  14. dfekt

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    how did they first 2 dates go, conversation wise?
     
  15. Ducky_Fresh

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    They went extremely well, hence the mystery on my part.

    I thought she was just playing games. You know, hard to get.

    Also, for reference, I've dated a few women at about 30. The "level" has NOTHING to do with it IMO...
     
  16. Ducky_Fresh

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    Apparently you guys don't know shit.

    I sent her a message asking her whats up, via email or something similar.

    She just checked it I think. Because I got a text saying: "Hi, sorry I haven't called. Just had a lot going on."
     
  17. dark cloud

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    Did she say anything else? If not then she could just be fucking with you again, making you the one who doesn't know shit. It took her what... like two weeks? Unless she was on vacation or kidnapped, she didn't want to speak to you.
     
  18. wilyfem

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    she not interested - there's really not a deeper throught process than that going on :hs:
     
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  19. chica&buddies

    chica&buddies Active Member

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    ya... been there, done that :sad2:

    it sucks tho, cause sometimes (i know... not always ;)) you can't trust that the person is being honest with you. :(

    if i were you, tell her that you'd appreciate her letting you know if she has a busy schedule. :dunno: it sucks feeling unwanted, when, it seems in your case, that that isn't the case at all. :) :dunno: having to wonder and worry about nothing isn't good, and plus, you never know when that other person might start to look elsewhere if communication isn't flowing smoothly.

    :sad2: i try to let people know that i'm busy as well cause i know that i hate it when people don't call me back after i leave a voicemail. :(
     
  20. addiction

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    Move on babe, she has--you should too
     
  21. gookarachie

    gookarachie New Member

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    Move on she isn't interested anymore
     
  22. Ducky_Fresh

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    Oh trust me, I'm moving on and seeing how it goes at the same time..

    Can't put all the eggs in one basket! I'm 24 for christ sakes!
     

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