Ladies, let's talk about porn

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  1. parabola

    parabola New Member

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    What gets you off?

    I'm in a very serious long term relationship with a wonderful girl who is a bit unexperienced in the sexual arena. She's had a couple boyfriends before me but everything has been kind of standard for her. She is very shy, especially about sexual matters although we are very open with each other. Her only experience with porn was one time with her girlfriends and it was some random hardcore thing they rented and were all grossed out (in a funny way) by.

    She knows I occasionally look at porn and has no problems with that, but I'd love to be able to find something that we could watch together and that could arouse her interests as well. Any help?

    Hints: Anal might be a bit much for her to start with, anything demeaning towards women would likely not be what she likes. She's more of a sensitive, sensual type at this point. Also, girl/girl may be an option. :big grin:

    Any recommendations here? Any advice?

    Thanks. :big grin:
     
  2. illmaceyougood

    illmaceyougood New Member

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    I'm not a girl, but there's a great lesbian scene called French Kiss: [FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Lessa & Alana. It's an hour long, with plenty of foreplay. They spend like the first ten minutes just kissing passionately.

    As for straight, if you want sensual and non-overly fake, search for "teenxxxhardcore"
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  3. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    if she's new to it, and you don't know what she likes, look into cum swapping, or other cock worship vids.

    reasons being:
    1) 2-3 girls per guy, and she's probably more comfortable with the female body. less likely to get weirded out with 12 cocks or old guys if she has something 'safe' she can divert her attention to.
    2) more exciting than just 1 on 1 or lesbo.
    3) the girls at least look like they are having fun, usually smiling and rarely does it ever look like it's uncomfortable. the girls are more or less in control, nonthreatening.
    4) blowjobs are safe territory, something she can relate to, and something she likely enjoys doing herself.
    5) tends to be more sensual.
    6) typically no over the top acting or fake orgasms from the girls.
    7) exposes her to porno cumshots without overdoing it.

    otherwise, basically anything with a good money shot, just no fatties. are you looking for specific videos, or actresses?
     
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  4. verdiocchi

    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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    Are you sure she's going to be into watching porn with you? Not something I'd be into at all and I'd probably be upset if my boyfriend asked me to.
     
  5. LS1S13

    LS1S13 New Member

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    Me and my wife watch porn together all the time.
     
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    lauren Active Member

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    why would you be upset if he asked you a question? just curious...
     
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    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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    I'd be upset if he asked me that because he already knows I'm not into that kind of thing.

    If he had asked me without knowing my feelings on it, I wouldn't be upset. I'd just tell him that's not my kind of thing.
     
  8. verdiocchi

    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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    It works well for some people, but I'm not really aroused by it. That's all. I think it would just get weird for me if I'm sitting there and it's literally doing nothing for me, but it's turning him on. I dunno, just not something we do.
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    The only thing that turns me on is your run of the mill PIV porn with a man and a woman :dunno:
     
  10. parabola

    parabola New Member

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    nope, she may very well not be into it at all. but she she will not be upset about me bringing up the idea, and likely she will give it a shot to see how she feels about it so that is why i'd like to have something ready that she may like.

    great ideas so far. keep 'em coming! (pun intended :big grin:)
     
  11. verdiocchi

    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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    Why don't you ask her about it and if she's up for it, pick something out together?
     
  12. parabola

    parabola New Member

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    fair point.

    she likely doesn't really know what, if anything, she'll like. the idea is to have something available that she MAY like if she is down.

    porn is so unpredictable though, and i dont want to turn her off by 'trying' with with something that turns out to be some crazy SM gang bang shit. :mamoru:
     
  13. Jimeigh

    Jimeigh Every rook and jay in the corvidae have been raven

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    im only a girl as a hobby, and not professionally, but id like to give my .02 about porn. the best kinds are the gems that make you feel as though you ARENT crazy. see i watched this one porno where the guy took a dump on the girls eyes and then fucked her in the mouth so that the shit smeared all over his pelvis while she was busy getting pinkeye. afterwards she tied him up hanging from the ceiling and cut his throat and drank from it while masturbating. THAT shit made me feel normal. i would never do that stuff - thats just crazy.
     
  14. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    she may be shy picking stuff out... experimentation and a gung ho attitude will be best
     
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    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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    True, but letting her take the reigns in what you guys watch will probably help her comfort with it. When trying new things like that it helps to feel like you're in control of the situation.

    Also, knowing that you waited until you got her approval to start thinking about what kind you want will probably help her comfort level too. I guess it just depends on the person. If there's something I wanted to try but thought the other person might be uncomfortable about it, I'd make sure he felt in control of the situation and would wait to figure out logistics together. But that's just me.
     
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    i agree with you that you should DEFINITELY pre watch whatever porn you are going to try.

    I would honestly start with some amateur porn, or amateur style stuff at least.

    skip out on the fake girls that are going to make her insecure, degradation, violence, extreme close ups etc. Just pick something nice, simple and sweet with some actual attention to sensuality.

    once shes seen one that she thought was at least ok then you can start experimenting. You just want to make sure her first impression is positive.
     
  17. verdiocchi

    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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    :werd: Good luck and let me know how it goes. I'm interested to see how she responds.
     
  18. RougeOgre

    RougeOgre FS Librarian and MOD

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    I recommend Pirates or Dream Quest. It is more of a movie with porn in it. Women are funny about their porn and women who don't really watch it are even more picky. I think these are good choices for newbies.
     
  19. sportsjunkie

    sportsjunkie OT Supporter

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    i think homemade porn is the hottest porn. seeing regular, everyday people getting it on is so hot to me.
    I think that when people watch homemade porn it gives them a sense that what those people are doing, they can do and they may feel not as shy to try something

    none of that directed bullcrap with 8 inch dicks and crazy ass moaning.
    oh, and girl on girl porn (without use of a dildo's and strap ons) are a huge turn on.
     
  20. poweraid

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    my gf got really upset when she found out I watched porn when I whacked off. for 10 months she thought I did it without any visuals just with super mind power lol.
     
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    I love home made.
     
  22. maskednegator

    maskednegator Kosmonaut, best we've got...

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    you do realize that this is how most women masturbate, right?
     
  23. poweraid

    poweraid OT Supporter

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    what without visuals? of course... that's why she got so offended. I couldn't just be like baby, we have different parts I need more stimulation lol
     
  24. textyle

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    Just make sure you don't get porn that has guys on there with cocks twice as big as yours because it could be trouble for you...:nono:
     
  25. poweraid

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    only if your gf is a slut. :coolugh:
     

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