FRK ladies in here more open minded

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  1. Jerseyguy

    Jerseyguy New Member

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    It seems to me the ladies in this forum are more open minded then most when it comes to non-standard forms of arousal.

    Ladies here talk about using vibrators, getting tied up, spanked, hair pulling, etc... most girls I talk to outside this board are very vanilla it seems.

    how many ladies here are in the minority with their friends??

    vibrators, like porn, like rough sex, like being filmed, nude pics, bondage etc???

    Am I the only guy that seems to think this as well?
     
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    ZetecRacing New Member

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    I've been suprised by this too. most woman I know are not into all this, it's nice to see there are more woman out there like this. I was begining to think it was only guys who were into freaky sex.
     
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    i definitely feel like the minority with my friends... i also feel like thats why i cant make NEW friends, since i feel like when i try to talk to them on my level, they get weirded out :hs: ... when i talk to my couple of life long friends, they tolerate what im talking about (if im talking about something sexual) because they know me and accept it...... I just hope i find someone i can talk to to MAKE NEW friends who will accept all of me :dunno:
     
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    kitty Uppity ass cat OT Supporter

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    We love you Triple C:kiss:
    I have one GF who I can kind of talk too. But other than that..not really. But I keep hand cuffs and a whip on my dressing table. If any one starts to freak a little I just tell them they are gag gifts, or smile really big.
    I'm learning to accept myself and what I like as just part of me. Plus..Hello! I live in CA. in a mostly gay area. I'm the Vanilla.:rofl:
     
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    It seems to me like most girls want to say they are freaky, but when it comes down to it, the most they want to do is pull hair and moan. None of them are every up for the handcuffs, knives, whips, blindfolds, ball gags, etc... It makes it so much harder when they are squirming around screaming for help... (just kidding, promise)
     
  6. PhishiesGirl

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    It's a lot easier for girls to be open and freaky to people who dont know who they are.
     
  7. PhishiesGirl

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    :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
     
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    I like it when women are more open minded(who wouldnt)

    When they are, it opens me up aswell(I'm more introverted for the most part)...but my best girl friends are all the ones who are more open minded...and my best relations ships were with ones who were more open aswell

    thats why I like my roomate so much(female of course) :bigthumb:

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    I know what ya mean :rofl:
     
  9. Kinks

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    for sure. which is why FS is great, because men and women alike say what's really on thier mind :)

    and if you can find someone who's relatively uninhibited in RL... :yum:
     
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    I really dont have any close friends and the ones I do are either guys or older women. I dont really chat with them about their sex life so I have no idea how kinky they are. They seem pretty vanilla but then again I probably do to. :dunno: Some might be into more hardcore stuff than I and I would never know. :o
     
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    I guess you are a bit correct. I like the hair pulling and to be choked but no knives and whips. Blindfolds and handcuffs are ok but not sure about the ball gag. I consider myself a fledgling at being freaky but definetely not vanilla.
     
  12. sessyducky

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    its great that theres somewhere u can say exactly whats on youre mind and not feel like youre going to be judged on it or scare people away...


    for the women outside of FS i think its mostly a trust issue and thats why the not vanilla people dont come out and say it..... its prolly because alot of the things that are talked about in here arent "normal" to their standards :dunno:
     
  13. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    I know exactly how you feel. the friends that I do talk about this with are my gay male buddies that are either into bits of it, or have tried some more freaky stuff. I have very few female friends/acquaintances and I rarely talk about stuff with them.


    As to the being open minded. I learned a long time ago that you really won't know what you like till you try everything (or almost everything) at least twice. Things that at age 17 I wouldn't have thought of as arousing or sexy I now do on a regular basis. You live, you learn. And I have never talked up my freakyness. I like what I like, and what i don't i let go to those that do. :dunno:
     
  14. I find that most people are intrigued when I start hinting about being freaky. Maybe they are surprised because I look very vanilla most of the time. Or maybe it is because I am older and usually talking to younger guys :dunno: Either way most the people I know don't seem to have a problem with it.
     
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    :bowdown:
     
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    It's pretty rare actually, from what i have experienced it is hard to find someone who is actually willing or wanting to get involved. Im a bit sick and tired of the responses from people who say they are in to 'freaky' stuff but when you talk to them for a few mins all their freaky extends to is the odd slapping of the arse or maybe sex in public :( There is a saving grace though, i have met a few people online who are really into it, further than me actually, which is cool because i always have someone to chat to or visit :) From experience, people either like it or they dont, they will generally be interested and want to know more (then you get them hooked! ;) ) or they will be really weird about it and you might cop some abuse.

    In person it helps if you look a bit odd, it is easier to start a conversation with like minded people when you look a bit out there, it's kinda weird if someone in a suit starts talking to you about how they were tied to the bed head last night while they were flogged or gagged and bound while they were pierced by their partner. Any mention of pain and most people cringe, the really interesting ones like to know more, the freaks just shout strap me down and have your way with me! get out the clamps, the cuffs, the whips, the gags, the rope, heck bring out the whole box! bring it all on you devilish creature! :big grin:

    I kinda like the freaks :hs:
     
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    Everybody has their own definition of freakyness. Just because someone doesnt like pain doesnt mean they arent freaky. Being choked isnt painful but I consider it freaky. As are a few other things I like.
     
  18. The women in FS, despite what you might think, are the kind of women you marry. They will take care of you, be faithful to you, always want you, aaaaaand will fuck you six ways to sunday.

    FS women > *women
     
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    Did i say they werent? i said any mention and they cringe at the thought.
     
  20. it was more of a rhetorical statement and a ego booster for the girls because sometimes closeminded individuals dont understand these particular kind of womens desires, and windup chastising or ridiculing them, all the while labeling them as whores and what not.



    wasnt ripping on you :)
     
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    :mamoru: Our secret is out.
     
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    net_prophet Tactical Texan

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    I completly agree!! FS girls do rock. Me and videogrl have been coming here for almost two years now and I know deep down I will spend th rest of my life with her. And your right, I know she will take care of me and lord knows I'll never get bored with her. But back on topic, we talk freely about our freakyness with our friends and they always seem to be intrigued. They always want to hear more and if I mention pics all our plans get pushed back because they want to see them. Sometimes I wonder if it's normal that all of videogrl's friends have seen pics of me naked.... oh well
     
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    For sure! Most of my friends are so vanilla... and most are incredibly homophobic...

    It's so nice to have a place like this where you can realize that you're not strange cause you like to use vibrators/dildos etc etc, or like both males and females, etc etc.

    hell... half of my friends say that they don't even get off on their own!!! :eek3:
     
  24. el_gato_negro

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    I've always thought that a bit sad. Sure, it's a personal choice...some people like to play with themselves, others don't...but I can't imagine not getting myself off. I'd probably be completely looney if I couldn't. :o

    I'm pretty vanilla myself, but I really like F/S...it's very "cozy", if you will. Plus is feeds my voyeuristic side. :naughty: The young woman I'm hoping to date is a bit of an exhibitionist...this might even work out (not to get ahead of the situation). :x:
     
  25. pixie

    pixie on one wild ride :naughty:

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    Somehow I always seem to find friend who are more F/S than I am :)squint: Mer) & only work with those who are less so. Sometimes I wonder if I have a sign on my forehead that says "open-minded person, very vanilla, but loves those who are into F/S" :o

    I am the Vanilla friend the F/S folks are forced to put up with-I've played around a little bit, but most of this forum would ask where the freaky was if I posted my adventures :hs:

    I'm not sure where that puts me in this thread though... open-minded, but not very F/S? :dunno:
     

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