Just curious as I have pretty bad approach anxiety and I'm trying to work through it. How did your SO first approach you? Was it a completely cold approach (as in you didn't notice him until he approached you)? Did you know each other before it turned romantic? Did you approach him? Just trying to gauge how women like to be approached by men. I can't bring myself to approach a woman unless she gives me a sign like a smile or something, but it seems like alot of guys just go for a completely cold approach which seems very creepy and invasive to me.