Hello! This is to the woman of OT, or the guys if they've had a good experience with asking out a woman on a whim. Ladies. What works with you if some guy just comes up to you and asks you out? i.e. I want to ask out this waitress. I'm just not one of those guys, but I really want to ask her out and not screw it up! any tips, tricks, or advice would be appreciated! cheers!