Ladies, do you have/have you ever had a sugar daddy?

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  1. johnny

    johnny shit, baby

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    ...as in some punk ass dude who buys you shit all the time?

    If so, what is/was the relationship like? Sexual or not? If you've had to break ties with a so-called "mack" of this variety, how did it end? How many "sugar daddies" are actually engaging, attractive, self-assured, etc?

    You get the idea :big grin:
     
  2. ebbnflo

    ebbnflo REAL- LAOT Hermit

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    Noooooo. Sorry. I have no clue what that is like.
     
  3. copperkali

    copperkali Mrs. Nicklk

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    no, but I wish i had one.
     
  4. PocoDiablo

    PocoDiablo New Member

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    I've been that sucker guy before ... bought women everything from dinners, movies, gas, drinks, clothes, jewelry and guess what?

    It never got me laid. Not once in 10+ years.

    Now I won't buy anything for a woman unless she buys me something first. Yeah, you heard me right. It's not a greed thing, it just proves they are not using me. The exception to this, of course, is when I ask a woman on a date. They are of course low-budget dates designed to allow us to get to know each other and talk, not concerts, skiing, etc. ;)
     
  5. t-money

    t-money Don't piss down my back and tell me it's raining.

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    Can anyone share their secret as to how to find a sugar daddy?
     
  6. purplebeast

    purplebeast The depths of hell and endless torture await all h

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    I feel you,......... almost.


    The only thing i will buy for a girl (if we are not on a date) is drinks. And thats cuz I love to drink and honestly dont mind spending money on it. Limit $50

    On a date, I'll pay for whatever up to $100 - $150 depending how hot she is.


    If Im boinking her. I really dont mind what I pay for. I figure money is to have fun. I only have one rule. Im not buying ANYTHING she can keep (watches, clothes, perfume, etc), unless we are on a serious relationship.










    To the original poster. I have a friend who has a sugar mamma. The relationship is mostly just about sex. The better he does her, the nicest stuff he gets. But there are downsides, recently she found a better lay. And overnight my friend lost his room and board in a VERY nice house, his Lexus and most of his watches and chains.
     
  7. Cerridwen

    Cerridwen Guest

    :rofl::rofl::rofl:



    My husband is my 'sugar daddy' now I guess. He supports our family 100% while I'm in school. I don't think that's quite the situation you're looking for though.

    While I was working he always called me his sugar momma, cuz I made so much more money than him :mamoru:
     
  8. sportsjunkie

    sportsjunkie OT Supporter

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    I wouldn't call the guy my 'sugar daddy'...but he'd do anything for me. And he knew straight up that he wouldn't be getting anything from me (sexually).

    He paid for my books, he bought me clothes, food, paid phone bills :dunno:
    I saw him as my friend and vice versa...but I don't think he was my sugar daddy.

    He moved to go to school, and we never talk anymore
    I don't feel bad because I don't think I ever 'used' him. He's always volunteered to do these things for me.
     
  9. BoypussY

    BoypussY game over.

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    thankfully i have never done that stuff for a woman...i thought it was pretty obvious to any man that you're just being used but I guess some people are just that desperate thinking they can win over that woman with his $ and attention.
     
  10. PocoDiablo

    PocoDiablo New Member

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    So check this out ... my fiance just bought me a brand new laptop. Now that's MY kind of woman! :big grin:
     
  11. Sionell89

    Sionell89 I grew up when I wasn't looking

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    I've been a sugar momma....I got clothes for it. And some kick ass backrubs.
     
  12. johnny

    johnny shit, baby

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    :bowdown: to sugar mommas and anyone who has one
     
  13. johnny

    johnny shit, baby

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    come on now, that doesn't count :hsugh:
     
  14. deznutz

    deznutz New Member

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    i am the sugar daddy...i spoil all girls i like...
     
  15. Cerridwen

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    :ugh:
    "I don't think that's quite the situation you're looking for though."

    No kidding, huh.
     
  16. johnny

    johnny shit, baby

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    sorry, I didn't mean it badly :hsd:
     
  17. timberwolf

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    I think that counts... While he 'knew' he wasn't getting any, he was definitely hoping. So you were pulling him along....
     
  18. jonno

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    :nono:
     
  19. Epiphany

    Epiphany 78% of all statistics are made up on the spot

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    It's sweet. I've had relationships with guys that start out buying a lot of stuff for me. I love the sentiment. I love knowing that I'm thought of when I'm not around. Whether it's just something random and little or whatever.

    They weren't people that I slept with because even over time it never really got to the point where they spent time with me. Gifts are sweet and all but I'd be happier with time spent together.
     
  20. lauren

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    i dated an older guy who showered me with material possesions while we were dating. it was odd, and too much and i broke it off.

    i dont belive in showing your love an affected through money. granted, i was a college kid and he had a job, so he could afford to take me out to a nice dinner when i couldnt necessarily, but over all he was possesiive, insecure and controlling.

    otherwise, he was nice, funny, smart, attractive, but he felt he had to buy my love. thats a big turn off. he was also arogant, and snobby. looked down at anything that wasnt top shelf.
     
  21. Advan

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    you probably shouldnt be dating anyone you have a fear they may be using you....:rolleyes:
     
  22. Eris

    Eris Yes please

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    Briefly and I'll never do it again!
     
  23. svetlanalemon

    svetlanalemon A little blood and vomit on the car seat...

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    this reminds me of when i was in 7th grade, and this hispanic girl that i became friends with in P.E. told me about this older guy who would buy things for her if she were his "girlfriend" and i thought it was kind of cool until she mentioned he was like 40 ish...

    :ugh: and then, she was like, "You should come too sometime, he has a car, and he'll buy you stuff..."

    i feel bad for her thinking about it.
    we never became too close. :hs:
     
  24. purplebeast

    purplebeast The depths of hell and endless torture await all h

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    I'll tell u how my boy gets sugar mammas.

    He frequents places that draw middle age woman.
    He looks for the ones that are fat and look like they have money
    He hits on them just like if he was hitting on one of our peers.
    Gets to know them a bit to make sure they got $$$$
    He gives some LD love and gets them hooked.
    Brings up his financial problems and sits back as the presents roll in.
     
  25. purplebeast

    purplebeast The depths of hell and endless torture await all h

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    That story would be pretty hot if u guys had atleast been in 10th grade.
     

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