SRS Ladies and gentlemen of OT, i kissed a girl.

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  1. i killed tupac

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    I mutualy ended a three year relationship about a year and a half ago, and havent been with a girl since, and only kissed one girl, and that lasted all of a week.

    I met this girl back in March, we work together (well, same building, different companies) and we hung out, and i believe i started falling for her in April, but right after that, i had alot of things happen, got put on antidepressants, almost relapsed (im a recovering addict) got anxiety, etc, etc. And she knew all this, and still stood by my side as a friend.

    We talk every night on AIM or by text till 2am for almost 8 months now, she knows everything about me, and was still interested in me :eek3: All my quirks, eccentricities, insecurities, etc :hs:

    Well tonight after watching the Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy, I did it. I kissed her, and it kicked ass. Had a few minutes of good ol fashioned sloppy huggin/kissin, then i walked her out to her car :)

    Cliffs: i kissed a girl and it was not like kissing me.
     
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    Congrats :x: hope everything works out for you two.
     
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    :bowrofl: Well, that's an improvement! GG :)
     
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    Good work. But you've been like this for 8 months already?
    Pick up the pace a little.

    Still, now that you've got this far, good on ya, now let's get movin son! :big grin:
     
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    wooooohoooooooooooooooo!
     
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    *intercome over store* Attention customers, %#^ and @%^# made out last night!! that is all.

    go go power ranger, keep up the good work. But be good to her, she is a sweet girl.
     
  8. i killed tupac

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    oh yeah i forget youre on ot...heh...like disregard the personal drama i mentioned eh?

    :hug:
     
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    Good work :)
     
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    yes! cookin with gas
     
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    been a year since my 3 year relationship ended. kissed a few here and there but nobody i really like. grats bro
     
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    ya know, i quit looking, and it just kinda happened :dunno:
     
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    now what the hell is going on i havent seen her since?!

    :rant:
     
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    I'm amazed you arent friendzoned
     
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    well, my instinct is, you were friendzoned, and she didnt know how to handle your 'sudden' move to kiss her, and now that she's gone, she's not coming back.

    But the truth is in the kiss. Did she kiss back? Was her mouth open/shut? Was she moving into the kiss or away from the kiss? (As in, were you pushing against her or were you able to keep the kiss going without needing to move your head)
     
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    i think she's just slow moving...cuz shes coming over tomorrow night :eek3: and we still talk daily, and she has told me flat out that she'd been waiting for me to kiss her. I think, we may have a good, ol fashioned courtship
     
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    well if I had to guess...
    8 month long blueball session = she wasn't totally into it.
    surprise kiss planted on her = she wasn't ready for that
    kiss test confirmed it for her, she's not into it = why nothing happened for 8 months.
    one last chance = she's not sure how to proceed, although frankly, girls will not simply just disappear if they want you.

    so I think you have your answer, although I wouldn't say its 100% dead just yet, depends on how long it's been, how she did or didn't kiss back, whether you called her, etc.



    Anyways, the important lesson here is NOT whether this particular girl is into it, but rather... 8 months!
    Come on. Next time, make that move fast.

    Unless there's some weird extenuating circumstance, you and she should know reasonably early on whether you're both into it.

    You may not consummate (= kiss...for now) it in the first week, but there ought to that rush of '....wow...maybe!' quite early on.

    It shouldn't take 8 months to get there. Don't torture yourself like that. Grab a pair, and get moving.
     
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    Just move a bit faster now man.

    I mean dont bang her tomorrow or anything but atleast make more moves now that you have that butterfly in your stomach...
     
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    ok, she's coming over tonight-and has applauded my attempts so far, and i feel good about it :noes:

    however, she is going on vacation for 2 weeks the next day :run:

    gotta make this count!

    stay tuned for details
     
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    Akumasun Follow the Light.

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    :noes: Waiting!
     
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    make the move. succeed or get shot down...irrelevant.

    success == golden!
    shot down == who cares....NEXT!

    The only thing that matters is to make your move.

    Now..let's hope for a happy update.
     
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    Wait, where'd you kiss her?
     
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    Oh, we are definately NOT friendzoned :eek3:

    came over, watched a movie, and i tell you, i havent been held/kissed like that since i can remember :love:

    and now she's outta town for two weeks. :hs:
     
  24. Peyomp

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    Kiss her some place else.
     
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    you perverted bastard ;)
     

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