Ladies: Am I the only one...

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  1. cgnmd0819

    cgnmd0819 New Member

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    I happen to be a nympho.. which I guess is a good and bad thing.. But does it drive you nuts when you haven't gotten any in a while and your man will go and rub one off and not do anything with you? :confused:
     
  2. BTA

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    The answer to your real question is yes.

    Yes, you can cheat on your boyfriend.

    Because you'll do it anyway.
     
  3. DweeLer

    DweeLer New Member

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    Seriously. If he aint satisfying you, you better get demanding or get some from somewhere else.
     
  4. Carpet Liquor

    Carpet Liquor New Member

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    [comic book guy voice]Worst advise evar![/comic book guy voice]

    Maybe this would be a time to talk to him.

    There may be other factors that really have nothing to do with sex.
     
  5. dscallaway69

    dscallaway69 New Member

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    I can see where that would be a problem. Maybe you should say something to him rather than asking questions here. Just a thought though
     
  6. RockChick

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    hang on hang on hang on... you are a gurl with a very high sex drive.
    and you and your man dont have enough sex (in your opinion)... but then you say your man goes somewhere to jerk it off?

    im confused.

    well basically im wondering why in gods name you guys dont have sex cos obviously he needs to get rid of the pressure too. :squint:
     
  7. Unknown

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    I can't wait till I find the right girl. I have quite a high sex drive and hope i find the right girl that can keep up with me. this forum gives me hope for that.


    sucks still being a virg
     
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  8. Cerridwen

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    Take control ;) A lot of men like it.
    And no you are not the only one that feels that way, but I'm sure it's on both ends. I'm sure there are probably times your man wants sex but you don't and vice versa. He SHOULDN'T however be avoiding you. What else is going on in the relationship?
     
  9. rkf76

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    What kinda gay dude would do that when he's got a ready and willing piece of ass waiting for him to beat it up? He won't give you any? Go find somebody who will cause he's fuckin' gay!!

























    I'm available:wavey:
     
  10. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    Another reality apparently
    :werd: We cant help on this one, talk to him... DONT cheat on him just because he has a low sex drive, that can chance all the time.

    :ugh: loser :rofl:
     
  11. Coco Monkey

    Coco Monkey OT Supporter

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    quoted for the truth!!

    :bowdown:
     
  12. themacstallion

    themacstallion The electric sheep are dreaming up your fate

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    :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl: :gtfo:
     
  13. jordo

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    so am i three times a day if i can, but my girlfriend physically cant. most of the times she just gives it to me, which i hate. i like to think sex is a thing you do with both into it.
    which doesnt make it as romantic :(
     
  14. TigerWoodsJr

    TigerWoodsJr LSX Elitist Prick

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    hmmm... yeah, finding a partner with the same sex drive is important I suppose. Thats odd he goes and rubs one out when your hot and bothered... talk to him about that.

    My gf is a super nympho and for a while we would like maybe 5 times a week then all of a sudden something clicked and I want it lots more and we did the math the other day and its between 10-20 times a week... yesterday was 5 times.
     
  15. lauren

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    more often than not. had the same problem with the so....hed rather play or watch porn when i was in bed naked...felt pretty rejected. i talked to him about it, nothing changed.


    communication, then moving on.
     
  16. Cerridwen

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    I'm assuming you didn't stay (from your last 3 words?)?
    I don't think I could live in a situation like that honestly. We don't make love half as much as I want,but we also don't see each other that much (work opposite shifts) :(
     
  17. lauren

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    its in the air right now. hes not living with me anymore, and we have yet to work things out. i dunno whats going on.
     
  18. Soren

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    Maybe he likes to fantasize about beautiful women instead of looking at you? Maybe you're not that attractive to him?
     
  19. evoluti0n

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    wtf. what kind of numbskull sees his girl naked in bed and chooses to go sit in front of a computer?
     
  20. Carpet Liquor

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    There must be a lot of young yet to experiance life guys in this thread.

    I was one of those guys that would ratherjerk it than fuck my GF, most of the time. There were a few factors, I was going through depression and PTSD, which caused me to not be myself at all. But also my GF used sex as some sort of reward, or tease. She had a way higher sex drive than me, even when we got together, but then at times used the idea of sex as a bad thing. I think she was also one of those girls that thought masterbation was "icky", and not something that should be done. She never spoke of rubbing one out herself, and I know she didn't like the idea of me jerkin' it. Oh well, some people need to let thier inhibitions go, sometimes. ;)

    Anyway back to the point, it's probably not that he doesn't find you attractive, or that there is anything wrong with you, in his eyes, sometimes men just go through periods where they'd rather do it themselves, no need for foreplay, no issues with not cuddling afterwards, and sometimes we just like to feel out boners in our hands and do the deed.

    There's also other thoughts on this subject, goes back to childhood, when we are young we "discover ourselves" and usually play with ourselves, even at a young age, there is a term for this, that I can't remember right now. Well the thought is that we go through a similar period when we get older as well, in fact it is thought that we go through this regularly, maybe as often as every few years, some people there is a longer span between.

    What I have written above doesn't make it an excuse for men not to have relations with thier SO, because if there is NO sex between the couple there is something much deeper, so comunication is important, but using acusery statements, will only make the problem worse.

    Also make sure you're sending the right signals, he may not be interpreting them right, he may be getting the signal that you don't want to have sex with him, even though you desire to. Signals change over time and need to make sure the signals are the right ones.
    At times I had to flat out ask my ex "Do you want to have sex?" because the signals were mixed.
     
  21. lauren

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    entirely possible, and porbably true. point is, you need to be with someone who likes you, and is physically attracted to.

    i cant stay with someone who didnt think i was pretty. move on.

    i completely understand masturabating instead of sex. it doesnt bother me, as long as i get it sometimes. hell, he can do it 5 times a day, as long as i get sex at least a few times a week. problem was, i wastn getting shit. ever.
     
  22. NJGuy

    NJGuy "Fuckmefuckmefuckmefuckmef uckmefuckmefuckmefuckm OT Supporter

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    Point of veiw #1
    You said he was interested in porn more than you?
    Ever fucken think to try and join him with the porn?
    I know doing a girl and watching porn is some good fun.
    I knew a guy once who had a psycho GF and wouldnt leave her because she liked sex with porn and it was so hard to find a girl like that.

    Another point of view.
    Yeah, it could be he is not attracted to you much.
    Many people will keep their SO around out of comfort, laziness, or loneliness even if they lose attraction for them. *shrug* If thats the case it might be time to move on.
     
  23. cgnmd0819

    cgnmd0819 New Member

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    I would NEVER cheat on my boyfriend, I love him to death! Cheating is wrong!
     
  24. cgnmd0819

    cgnmd0819 New Member

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    I didn't say he was more into porn than me.. and about the watching porn thing with him I don't mind watching it with him.. I just don't understand why we (my boyfriend and I) can be doing so good and then the next moment we don't have sex for a while.. it drives me nuts!

    I don't see why he can go and rub one off, but not share his tool..if u know what I mean.. Like I don't have a problem if he needs to rub one off.. But he should be able to give me the satisfaction of an orgasm as well..
     

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