Kiss on the first date?

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  1. ww_Crimson

    ww_Crimson New Member

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    Ladies and Gents alike..

    Do you consider a first date to have gone bad /fail if there is no kiss involved?
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Not at all. I think I went on at least 3 dates with my bf before we finally kissed; and I had to kiss him! I thought it was sweet when it finally happened. Every other time we said goodbye it would've been forced and rushed.
     
  3. M.E.

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    fuck that, thats some high school shit, if i dont try to kiss you, then dont count on a 2nd date, if i go for a kiss and get rejected, there will be no 2nd date.
     
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    Good to hear. Went out with a girl today and it felt like kissing her goodbye would have been forced.. Her dad was mowing the lawn out front so it was noisy and we were both sort of in a hurry to be on our separate ways...
     
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    Didn't you just post something about not even being able to send a girl a message on myspace?
     
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    If you put it off, within reason anyway, it's a lot better. I usually wait a date or two at least before making a move for a kiss. Besides, more often than not it puts them in the position of wanting I was in from the get go :naughty: Out on a date with a woman who's having a tough time keeping her hands off is a good place to be.
     
  7. M.E.

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    hey that's a girl i have irrational emotions for stemming from highschool...any other girl is just another girl.
     
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    Fair enough -- wasn't trying to come off as attacking you, I was just surprised to see such a turn of confidence from one post to another.
     
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    Yeah.. I met this girl up for coffee briefly once and things went well so we grabbed a movie today before she had to drive back to her hometown.. she's only local on weekends. Cuddled a bit and conversation was good but I felt going in for a kiss would have been weird so I passed. One of my buddies always gives me the :greddy:if I don't make a move for a kiss on the first day so I wanted others' insight.
     
  10. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Dont worry. I've never heard a girl really bitch about not getting kissed. If anything it just makes the tension more exciting. I think kissing her under that circumstance today would've been unmemorable.
     
  11. M.E.

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    confidence?:squint:...arrogance sir, pure unadulterated arrogance.
     
  12. Viper

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    I don't think it's that huge a deal if you don't kiss on the first date.

    What IS a big deal is if you have a prime opportunity to kiss and you don't take it. It's not so much that you have to kiss on the first date, I think it's a matter of taking the opportunity when it presents itself to you.
     
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    I went out on a first date yesterday and we kissed. A lot. That's how you do it ;)
     
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    Except for in the "WHEN THE FUCK IS HE GOING TO KISS ME" :mad: way :mamoru:
     
  16. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :mamoru: Yep. It got there and I had to kiss him :mamoru:
     
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    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    1. She's fucked in the head and is insecure
    2. She feels something is wrong with her now because you didn't kiss her on the lips, but she blames you/men
     
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    Was it obvious that she wasn't letting you kiss her? I mean awkwardly obvious? Or did she misunderstand your advance?
     
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    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    After your other thread now I'm honestly afraid her blog entry is about her ex and you combined maybe.
     
  20. Jsin26

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    I think that is more a "Friend Zone" thing!
     
  21. MattThom01

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    it depends. If you're looking to get laid that night, then not getting a kiss is probably a bad sign.

    If you're looking for long term, getting one means there is physical attraction and good chemistry...but on the other hand, not getting one does not mean anything bad either.

    In short, don't rely on a kiss at the end of a date to indicate anything...you should be seeing signs of interest or disinterest throughout the date
     
  22. JordanClarkson

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    I never just go for a kiss anymore. I lead into it with a line. Like yesterday we were talking about chemistry and how you pretty much know right away if there's sexual chemistry. At the end of the date I said "let's work on our chemistry" and kissed her. It worked. :) I've also used "let's make xxx (her insecure ex-bf) jealous." :o
     
  23. 2angelmd

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    Who goes on dates anymore?
     
  24. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    nope, there's no need to rush anything. If you like each other then it will happen later.
     
  25. Nuk3

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    i like the classic feeling of asking a girl out to dinner, walk on the beach, etc.

    its badass oldschool :)
     

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