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  1. maseeh

    maseeh Guest

    Well... me and my girlfriend have talked for awhile but we finally decided we are going to have sex the next time we see each other. We have never even played around before, No BJ's and I have never ate her out.

    Well our first time is going to be in my other house in tracy and we plan to do it in the shower or on the bed. Is it going to get really messy?

    I am planning on making out with her and stripping her clothes off slowly for about 15 mins then getting her a little more wet, and getting a Bj, then going in......


    Should I masterbate that morning, Can a guy still go after he orgasms, how do I last longer, What else should I know
     
  2. [HRT]Squirrel Master

    [HRT]Squirrel Master New Member

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    why does this not sound like something I am going to belive :squint:
     
  3. audrey

    audrey New Member

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    hahahaha you are going to make her give you a blowjob before you have sex?

    Don't be stupid.
     
  4. Ichabod Crane

    Ichabod Crane Active Member

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    Sounds like you have this all planned out down to the minute.
     
  5. Eris

    Eris Yes please

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    Toss "the plan" out the window and go with the flow!

    Let it happen naturally ... :bigthumb:
     
  6. maseeh

    maseeh Guest

    Ok


    Why would'nt I finger her before going in, Would'nt it be painful to just stick it in when she's not really that wet??
     
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    Improvolone New Member

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    He didn't say that...
     
  8. Eris

    Eris Yes please

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    darlin .... I didn't mean just JUMP into the sex .... but don't plan every move .... start by making and out and go from there do what feels right and natural ... let it flow

    feel it instead of thinking it

    it's all in the foreplay ..
     
  9. maseeh

    maseeh Guest

    Alright


    What are the chances of the condom breaking and her getting pregnant??

    Is there anyway I can prevent that,
     
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    to much thinking...ahhhh!!!
     
  11. chica&buddies

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    i'm glad you asked... the clear packing tape over the condom works wonders. tape it to your shaft, make sure it's on good and TIGHT, and your good to go for hours... or days! :naughty:
     
  12. maseeh

    maseeh Guest

    lol you're right, I do think about it to much, Maybe it's because my girlfriend is pressuring me into it, but now I feel like I am ready
     
  13. Eris

    Eris Yes please

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    as for actual breakage can't give a % make sure the condom hasn't been stored anywhere where it could have been damaged or exposed to excess heat.

    Also when opening make it a clean tear .... the one cause i had a condom break on me was b/c things got a lil "too dry" ... so if need be, use some lube

    proper care and knowing how to put on the condom should decrease the chance of mishaps

    OR

    you can opt not to have sex and no worries (not preaching your call just putting it out there)

    maybe have a lil dry sex (aka dry humping .. clothes on) and explore eachother .... start with hands (fnigering/hand job) ... and next time try oral ... and once you're both comfy hea into sex

    don't do it JUST TO DO IT ... my .02
     
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    you havent done any fingering/makingout/oral before...you are doing it all in one night for the first time????

    my advice is to take it one thing at a time....
     
  15. jmechy

    jmechy Calmer then you are.

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    or not. Seriously, you sound way too tense. You really need to relax and take things as they come.

    HOWEVER, you should be sure to make sure you get her VERY excited before you start. If its her first time, then its about her, NOT YOU, no matter what.
     
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    clearly you are not ready, get a clue, or that bj, before continuing.


    seriosuly though, that was pretty cute.
     
  17. Mordaine

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    dude, i was in the same shoes. your going to go limp. you will be so nervious, and not know what to do. step up to it man. when i started to read your thread. it reminded of mine back in the day. trust me man, this is my story:

    left house at 1am, got to her place. parents alseep, both bro and sis asleep. and well i was nervious as hell. we never done anything befor. so well. we went for it. i was all good untill she got on top. i was so worried about shit, i went limp.

    its a fact. after that, we did steps, and then went for it. and it was great. but just take it in steps.
     
  18. KoRnStaR

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    damn kid, get high before you have sex...you sound way too uptight..not a big deal, though..you're nervous.
     
  19. Darrin

    Darrin Eat. Sleep. Arrest People.

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    ure gonna get too nervous and go floppy.. then it'll be horrific.


    my advice, relax, and let it go, something thats scripted ISNT exhilerating.
     
  20. RedVsBlue

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    :werd: Sounds like a fake post anyways. Either that or a nervous 12 yo...
     
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    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    Hmm, I would go with everybody else's advice and start slow. Don't plan everything to the minute. You don't want to me making out, and then be like... okay it has been 15 minutes! TAKE OFF YOUR PANTS! Hahaha, start out with oral/ hands/ explore each others bodies. This will make you less nervous and you can actually get her to cum. From my experience she is not going to cum the first time she has sex EVER, and you want to please her too.
     
  22. Carpet Liquor

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    Hahahaha Planned sex is teh sux0rz. Surprise sex and letting it flow is teh win!

    Having an itinerary for sex will just make it that much less enjoyable, and that much more stressful.

    I'd definatly hold back though, you sound way to young to be completly comfortable with this, or you haven't payed attention at all in sex ed classes.
     
  23. chinisimo

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    don't plan it. just do it. it won't be the best time of your life anyway. just wear a condom. put some towels under her and you're good to go.
     
  24. affende

    affende Resident 4X4 Elitest Prick

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    if you are her first...she/s prolly gonna bleed like a motherfucker...hymen ftl...break her in with your hands

    go slow, dont plan, and RELAX.

    and jack off about 2 hours before...itll kick the sensitivity down a notch or twelve
     
  25. themacstallion

    themacstallion The electric sheep are dreaming up your fate

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    your nerves are going to cancel your boner if you have it planned out to the extent that you do.
     

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