FRK Kind of a stupid old topic...

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  1. stosh

    stosh BUBBLE BUTT BOBBY MAC

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    Hey guys and girls. Haven't posted in here in years.

    My wife and I have always had a great sex life. However there is always one thing I've stuggled with and that is cumming to quickly. The majority of the time with some work I can manage myself pretty well. However what do you guys do to help with this?

    Thanks in advance!
     
  2. Bubba Atlantis

    Bubba Atlantis New Member

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    control the situation...I find if she is in control, I cum quicker....if I am in control, I can adjust things better, so it takes longer. Also, switch what you do. Fuck for a bit...finger her for a bit, eat her out....change positions, etc etc.

    NOTE: As I write this the wife looks over the shoulder and says oh come on...you have never had a problem with cumming too quickly, so you can't really give advice.

    Sigh....
     
  3. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    cock ring.
     
  4. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    AtlantisBubba is correct. Just switch it up.

    A thing I did a few years back (I had started dating this beautiful girl and didn't wanna ruin it by busting too quick on our first time together) I started masterbating 2-4 times a day. It got to the point that getting the 2rd nut out via masterbation was a LONG process and the 4th wasn't even worth tryin but when it came to sex (being that is a whole different lvl of excitement to masterbating) I lasted a good bit of time and was not embarassed. I lucked out and when she found out what I was doin she just started fuckin me the 4 times a day.
     
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    Bubba Atlantis New Member

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    WOO HOOO :big grin:....some said I was correct......I can now finally die satisfied

    Thank you Vulgar :mamoru:

    btw....nice story....always good to find those sweet girls that will do that for you
     
  6. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    god i wish for 4 times a WEEK. 4 times a day and i'd be wheelchair bound in shakey legged ecstacy
     
  7. JoJoBee

    JoJoBee Hanging out with my chicks! OT Supporter

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    ^^^ not to mention swollen....
     
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    Think of margeret thatcher naked on a cold day.
     
  9. stosh

    stosh BUBBLE BUTT BOBBY MAC

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    it's not really a huge problem but sometimes I would just love to go on for hours.
     
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    lol....how about the opposite

    How do you come quckier :mamoru:
     
  11. Specialist23

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    just think about your av. that should about take care of it.

    otherwise i think about video games. that usually works. or baseball, can't do football because of all the tight clothes, really a turn off more than anything else.

    but to sum it all up, what others have mentioned about being in control.
     
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    I understand your problem. I am on the other end. I have a hard time coming at all. I think when you take control you will have an easier time. Suggestions for coming faster?
     
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    LOL...it was meant to be a joke....my wife has always said I have good stamina..and has actually stated a few times to hurry up.... :mamoru:
     
  14. VulgarTheClown

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    It might not work for everyone but it worked for me.

    She was a great chick, too bad she was a stoner (thats why I ended it)

    I think she could keep up the pace with me cause I always did all the work.

    The 4 or 5 times were typically back to back too. I've had good luck with being able to bust a nut and by the time I've washed off i can go again.

    If she did the work it was like a 1 shot deal. So lazy.
     
  15. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    This is no good. I've gone over 50 min on 1 nut before and I was being moderately rough and was getting complaints about tenderness, soarness, etc... unless you are uber gentle it wouldn't go over well.

    If it goes longer than 20-30 min in a rough fashion of pounding and deep insertion I tend to get complains about pain. I aim for about 20 min.
     
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    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    relax into the feelings. Forget everything else and just focus on the sensations.
     
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    take a break when you feel it cumming (nice, eh) on and get a vibe out. keeps her going and you can regain composure.
     

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