FRK kind of a problemo

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  1. katatat

    katatat you're outta your league Donnie

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    the SO is really into kink. i'm open to things to at least try and if it works out then woohoo for us. here's the problem: i like my hair being pulled, but my SO can't ever do it how i like it. the only person *which is how i discovered it* that can pull it exactly how i like it is my ex bf that i lost my v card to.

    and it is kind of difficult to explain sorta. just more or less demonstrate but even so i don't know that i can get him to do it how i like it?

    what should i do?
     
  2. SQLee

    SQLee The OTer That Cares™

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  3. The Repair Man

    The Repair Man New Member

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    yeah for real, show him how you like it. Take some time to let him pull your hair outside of sex to see how its done.

    dont feel silly about it either.
     
  4. katatat

    katatat you're outta your league Donnie

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    well it is just hard for me to explain it. and i don't wanna demonstrate it because it isn't as though i'm doing it to myself.
     
  5. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    well when youre going at it, and he does A and youre thinking C, there must a B that you can help him with to get to that point?
     
  6. HouseLing

    HouseLing When masturbations lost its fun you'r fucking lazy

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    take his hand, put it on your hair how you like it, and guide him through it?
     
  7. SQLee

    SQLee The OTer That Cares™

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    Take it from a guy, that's fucking HOT!
     
  8. The Repair Man

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    dont forget to say "pull my hair, make me your little dirty slut" we guys love that.
     
  9. SQLee

    SQLee The OTer That Cares™

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    :naughty: Fuck. Yes.
     
  10. Hunter Michaels

    Hunter Michaels The Real American Gigolo

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    I concur. In my experience talking about things can make most things work out.
     

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