LGBT Kakashi is pretty sad...

Discussion in 'Lifestyle' started by Kakashi, Aug 25, 2006.

  1. Kakashi

    Kakashi I'm kind of a big deal.

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    bleh...

    So my boyfriend and I just split up, which I knew was going to happen. I don't have expectations.. I know people change just like the tides do, you try to plan things out and find later you never knew what you wanted in the first place. At least that's how it is for me...

    To be honest I'm having a lot of problems with myself, I needed the space to find myself, or create myself.. whatever you wish to call it. We're still friends but for now I am going to pretty much keep to myself, figure out where I'm headed I guess. I'm confused, sad, but same time I'm happy because I feel like finally I can grow up.

    I think time apart will help us in the end, his life is busy he's in college and working full time.. he's got so many stresses and I do too, so I guess it's for the best but I miss him already, I really love him. I told him I'd be away a few months and give him space and me space, he said he loves me and not having the title of "boyfriend" doesn't change that..

    Anyway, sorry rant... and if I don't make sense sorry I'm really confused..
     
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    XPX New Member

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    that sucks :hug:...at least it was a friendly non-dramatic separation....
     
  3. pigeon

    pigeon wasabi

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  4. Kakashi

    Kakashi I'm kind of a big deal.

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    hmm that's true Wookie, at least we're not enemies and stuff..

    and lol @ pigeon, thanks ^_^
     
  5. XPX

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    and I was trying to keep it in my pants :hs:

    girls act faster I guess :o
     
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    its probably for the better - glad you're still "friends" but that doesnt make it any easier.
     
  7. pigeon

    pigeon wasabi

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  9. XPX

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    :3some:? :noes:
     
  10. Kakashi

    Kakashi I'm kind of a big deal.

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    I guess I just take this experience to better myself over all.. I am thinking of getting back into dating girls again maybe.. I don't know.

    Yes, I'm bi..
     
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    :hs: I'm thinking the same thing

    but yeah, I guess I agree with sholnay
     
  12. Kakashi

    Kakashi I'm kind of a big deal.

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    Cool so we pretty much all agree ^_^
     
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    i agree as well
     
  14. spiffy_badrock

    spiffy_badrock I'm sorry, if you were right, I'd agree with you.

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    best of luck, we're here for ya.
     
  15. Faghot

    Faghot We had one foot on the gas& one foot in the grave, OT Supporter

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    if it makes you feel any better, probably everyone in The Closet would bang you because you're so damn cute.

    :hsughno:

    For my real opinion:
    If being friends with him has too much tension and doesn't help you feel better, then just end it there as well. Once you feel better and have things sorted out and you're comfortable, you can go back. My bf and I try to stop some things, but in the end it always goes back to normal, even though we told ourselves we would wait until things in our life are alright. So... if it were something really serious, I would just stop the whole friend thing as well.

    But that's only from my experience. My bf and I are odd people. :mamoru: :hs:

    I hope things work out well for you. Just hang on and don't forget your goal. :hug:
     
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    Best of luck with everything, and hopefully your breakup remains drama free. None of mine with men have been drama free, less drama when I broke up with my womenz!
     
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    I broke up with myself last week...
     
  18. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    And how are you dealing with that? :mamoru:
     
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    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    Take the time to find the real you. Only then can you find someone to really complement you.
     
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    Wanna date me now? :x:
     
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    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    ...he's mine. He just doen't know it yet.
     
  22. pigeon

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    +1

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  23. Kakashi

    Kakashi I'm kind of a big deal.

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    lol thanks. ^_^

    Yeah I already decided to have space from him for a few months.. to figure shit out. Right now being friends just won't happen..

    I explain why on my blog on myspace, if you want to read it PM me for the link. I am moving on though talking to different guys etc...

    Btw thanks everyone for such kind words. <3
     
  24. RyRy

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    Fine you can have him but I get PT. Deal :dunno:
     
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