SRS just got denied.

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  1. rejiro

    rejiro New Member

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    nothing much to say it is the worst when you know that you are just another notch on someones belt.

    ow. :hsd:
     
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    It happens
     
  3. Pringles

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    I think it's good to know. Just imagine how much longer you could've spent not knowing. Better to know sooner than later.
     
  4. rejiro

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    Yes.

    1. Halo Effect: Never let ONE good trait outweigh the rest of the person. In effect, don't get blindsided by one good thing.
    2. Attached: Look out for yourself first. Don't get "oneitis" (invest too much into one girl you aren't dating.)
    3. Everything is a risk: Opening up to someone, letting the shields down, putting down the bridge to let someone cross the moat is always a risk. Never be afraid to take the shot when YOU think it is the right time.
     
  5. rejiro

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    and never let someone else be the judge of your own self worth, despite what they say, what they do, and what they think

    but it still hurts; just a little :hs:
     
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    oh i knew the girl. i just got led on pretty hardcore. :mamoru:
     
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    If I went by all this 100% I'm afraid there is no one out there for me. :eek3:
     
  8. DatacomGuy

    DatacomGuy is moving to Canada

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    Heh.. Right?
     
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    You have a belt too right? Add a notch of your own, and move on. The road goes two ways...or whatever the hell that saying is lol.
     
  10. rejiro

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    pretty much. I'm just happy i know the answer. Knowing > limbo.

    as for chicks...i my best advice is instead of trying to find the right woman..concentrate on being the right man?

    it makes sense to me.
     
  11. DatacomGuy

    DatacomGuy is moving to Canada

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    Wise words.
     
  12. rejiro

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    actually i was thinking more along the lines of getting your shit straight with your life. have a career, have passions in life. have hobbies. live life. If she can't get with my program then, well cya?
     
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    sorry, i'm not really the person to write lengthy dissertations :o

    you get what i'm saying :h5:
     
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    :werd:
     
  15. Kirbys Autumn

    Kirbys Autumn Mrs. Kirby McSpic

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    Very well said.
     
  16. rejiro

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    as weird as it sounds, i'm happy teh asylum exists. even though we all exist as as an AV (or sometimes not even an av :mamoru:) and a handle..well i dunno. thanks for being there, yenno?

    another day i'm happy is another day of me beating the odds. :wiggle:
     
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    You read his words, but you missed his intent. You both ultimately recommend the same thing.
     

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