SRS Just For Today, May 11

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  1. metoots13

    metoots13 New Member

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    May 11 Balancing The Scales

    "A lot of our chief concerns and major difficulties come from our inexperience with living without drugs. Often when we ask an old timer what to do, we are amazed at the simplicity of the answer." Basic Text, pp. 41-42

    Finding balance in recovery is quite a bit like sitting down with a set of scales and a pile of sand. The goal is to have an equal amount of sand on each side of the scales, achieving a balance of weight.
    We do the same thing in recovery. We sit down with the foundation of our clean time and the Twelve Steps, then attempt to add employment, household responsibilities, friends, sponsees, relationships, meetings, and service in equal weights so that the scales balance. Our first try may throw our personal scales out of kilter. We may find that, because of our over-involvement in service, we have upset our employer or our family. But when we try to correct this problem by resigning from NA service altogether, the other side of the scales go out of balance.

    We can ask for help from members who have stabilized their scales. These people are easy to recognize. They appear serene, composed, and self-assured. They'll smile in recognition at our dilemma and share how they slowed down, added only a few grains of sand at a time to either side of the scales, and were rewarded with balance in recovery.

    Just for today: I seek balance in my life. Today, I will ask others to share their experience in finding that balance.

    :) Just what I needed to learn today!
     
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    Yea aint that the truth. Life seems like really hard at first, but then it becomes self-evident that a lot of things either just pass in time, arent' in our control, or just simply start with us taking action. Life keeps going on, but can seem a little daunting at first.
     
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    anomaly If you weren't around for the original HA.net spli

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    Balance is what we work for, and never attain.
     
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    I don't necessarily agree with this, depending on how you define balance. Since balance is a moving target, no we're never going to achieve balance. If you mean just the ability to moderate, I don't necessarily strive to learn to moderate. For me, I don't strive for balance myself but rather I just strive to understand the will of my higher power. Balance comes as a result.
     

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