Or at least started to come out, I just told two of my best friends today I'm bi, and to feel free to spread the news. I felt like that was the best way to go about it, since I'd like the information to be out there since I didn't like keeping it a secret, but I don't want to be sending out mass texts of "OMG HAY GUYZ IM GAY!!1!" It feels good to be out, not having to worry about keeping it a secret. I knew all of my friends would be accepting, I think my only worry was just about how it would influence peoples' view of me as the manly man I'm known to be, but I figure everyone knows me well enough that they'll still see me as Steve the mountain man much more than Steve the bisexual. So, now that I'm out, where the hell does a 6'6"/290lb lumberjack/bear like me go about meeting other masculine men? I'm really not into the club scene or any of that, and I still have until April before I'm 21 so I'd assume most bars are out. Is anything online actually worthwhile? I looked on craigslist but they all seem like a bunch of freaks, not that I necessarily call for months of dating and a candlelight dinner before sex, but I'd like something a bit more personal than laying face down in a cheap motel room and having random dudes come in and fuck me.