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  1. mavfan1

    mavfan1 Active Member

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    No need to respond...just wanted to vent here. Was married May 28 of last year...things didn't work out so we go divorced. Moved to DC first week of April. Started dating a girl in June that wasn't really my type, but we had fun and the best sex I have ever had.

    Well, she messed up bad on Friday night - no need to go into it just understand that we had plans, she never showed and ended up out with some guys dancing.

    So, as a result, I really thought long and hard about the relationship, because the Friday episode was very disrespectful to me and the second time she had done something like that.

    We just got of the phone and basically I told her what I wanted out of a girl I dated - smart, took care of herself financially (so as to never have to stay with a crappy husband just because of finances), dressed well, and took care of herself. She says she is none of those things. The first two she is, but the second two aren't. I told her that I don't want somebody to change for me, but I feel SO guilty and SHALLOW.

    So, we decided not to date anymore because she will never be what I want. I just got done crying cause I feel so bad for hurting her and can only imagine some girl telling me that.

    Thanks for anyone that read this far...:sadwavey:
     
  2. THT

    THT The easy way is always mined

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    Sorry to hear but it sounds like you two had a "come to Jesus" talk and you realized that you two weren't compatible. It'll get better but it'll take time.
     
  3. LordOvenMitt

    LordOvenMitt New Member

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    I am sorry. But if she admits she cannot ever be what you want, then I dont see what is wrong with trying to be happy.

    Of course, hearing that would destroy me, as well as probably many other females, and males for that matter, it still probably saves more pain that could possible come down the road. Its really easier to end it sooner than later, especially if you said before that she really isnt your type. I dont personally believe in "types" but I can tell if I wouldnt date a particular person. Long story short, its better to have gotten it over with and saved both of you more pain, etc that would inevitably happen later.
     
  4. sportsjunkie

    sportsjunkie OT Supporter

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    so wait, you're in DC? :eek5:
     
  5. 5secstrtcar

    5secstrtcar Spot you 10, give you the move and still hand you

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    you'll be aight just get a couple of kills under your belt and get high...
     
  6. suckmyexhaust

    suckmyexhaust New Member

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    the only way to get over one is to get under another.
     
  7. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    you know what you need?

    You need to come visit me and NOVAJock up here in New Hampshire... and you need to bring that black vinyl mask with you...

    We'll make you feel better.
     
  8. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    There are other fish in the sea. you'll find a nother, better one that suits you. :hug:
     
  9. RougeOgre

    RougeOgre FS Librarian and MOD

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    :hug: It sucks for now, but you've probably saved yourself a lot of drama down the road. I'd send you a nekkid pic if it would help...but you've already seen them:wavey:
     
  10. mavfan1

    mavfan1 Active Member

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    Thanks guys. It just tough to realize that you hurt somebody.

    Thanks TNT and OvenMitt. Agreed with both of you and yes sooner than later is probably much better to save our feelings.

    SportsJ yes I am in DC....

    Sam...wasn't my pics...thanks but look back it was some other guy.

    Rouge...PM me away
     
  11. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    oh damn... I thought it was you... :(

    Still though, I hope you're doing ok... and plenty of fish in the sea... yadda yadda yadda... just be careful of the Stingrays.
     
  12. whitepearl

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    :rofl: that was my 1st thought too



    but sorry about the girl, everything happenes for a reason :hs: :hug:
     
  13. mavfan1

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    Changing my sig now so folks know how close they are to other FS

    Thanks Whitepearl and sorry Sam....
     
  14. Lovely Atlantis

    Lovely Atlantis Luscious Lovely Lady!

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    sorry to hear about your hard time. I'm sure it's better in the end. No point in dragging out a relationship that is going no where. If she wasn't what you wanted, then it's better that you told her that now then go out with her for years and THEN she finds out.
     
  15. Cobber

    Cobber Wanna touch my bunny hole?

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    sorry to hear ... but it must have been for the best
     
  16. pigeon

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    sorry to hear that. 'breaking up is hard to do....' ;) seriously, though, breaking up sucks no matter which side you're on. how can we cheer you up? :naughty:
     
  17. sportsjunkie

    sportsjunkie OT Supporter

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    y helo thar :naughty: :mamoru: :love:

    you'll be fine I'm sure, time heals all wounds ;)
     
  18. NYM3

    NYM3 Is this teal life or is it....fanta-sea?

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    so scary....that its very similar to what im going through right now.

    we're pretty much over after a year and half...it sucks....she basically did the same thing to me...

    i gave her 2 chances before....this was strike 3....

    its really rough man....sucks a lot...

    but there are other fish in the sea :bigthumb:
     
  19. affende

    affende Resident 4X4 Elitest Prick

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    im not going to apologize like others. instead i am congratulating you. You did the right thing. whats the purpose of wasting your time, effort, and most importantly, your love on someone who will not return it.
     
  20. sweetersin2185

    sweetersin2185 "You can get a lot farther with a kind word and a

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    Just think...the girl who is right for you will be thrilled you were able to break up with the girl who wasn't. You'll never meet the right one if you're afraid of hurting the wrong one. Still, breaking up sucks-especially with those circumstances and I send my condolences.
     
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    TigreTek omega member OT Supporter

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    Sucks, but its for the best and you seem to already know that.... that's half the battle right there.

    Remember the good times you had and file it away, it will work itself out.
     
  23. JoJoBee

    JoJoBee Hanging out with my chicks! OT Supporter

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    Sorry to hear that Mav. It will be a little rough at first but you'll be better in no time.

    BTW, your post is bringing out the lurkers.... LOL
     
  24. mavfan1

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    yeah, you are right. i would never post this in real OT as they would flame my ass especially with my post count. although not freaky, I just like you guys enough to trust you with honest posts.

    besides, i have shown you my cock....how can you not be close to me:buttsex:
     
  25. mavfan1

    mavfan1 Active Member

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    thanks jojo...what might help me feel better is to see some of that bod to go with that beautiful face.....

    (see what i did there...:nono: )
     

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