just broke up with my gf of 5yrs

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  1. SVTKING19

    SVTKING19 The Real Italian Stallion

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    well im finally single again, i just broke up with my gf after 5yrs of dating, feels kinda weird and im sad but a little relieved. we fought a lot she tried to tell me what to do and run my shit until i just snapped finally. in the 5yrs we dated we broke up a good amount of times because all we did was fight and not trust eachother ever. it was kind of a ticking time bomb of a relationship. i know ill miss her though but i hope it all works out. plus when i was with her i was thinkin of another girl which is a sign right there ya know. but i feel bad in a way cause i feel like i waster her time and mine, i guess its time to move on to better things and get my young 24yrold life back on track and get out there to meet some new ladies.
     
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    Good for you man, glad you've got such a positive outlook on the situation. Go get some new poon!
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    We feel you, man. Don't think of it as wasted time though. I have a tendency to do that too, but really you're just beating yourself up with talk like that. You did the right thing by breaking it off. Do yourself a favor and don't start meeting "some new ladies" for a while. We need time to heal before getting into something new. If you rush into something too quickly you are likely to make the same mistakes without even realizing it.
     
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    well from your post

    you did the right thing
     
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    Congrats for growing a pair and finally moving on.

    I don't like to argue so I can't believe how many relationships last for so long when couples constantly argue like you explained.
     
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    dont look at it like it was a time waster, look at it like it was a 5 year learning experience. just make sure you dont repeat the same mistake in any future relationships.

    and :bigthumb: for doing the right thing and getting out finally. sounds like you both will be happier and better off now
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    You wasted time, but oh well, it's over now and you have to look towards the future and never wasting your time in a relaitonship like that again! You are still young. Good luck :h5:
     
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    Funny thing i noticed about this thread is there were 168 views and 8 posts when i opened it... i guess we like to laugh at others pain
     
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    SVTKING19 The Real Italian Stallion

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    thanks everyone i appreciate it
     
  12. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    Good shit bro :bowdown:

    Everyone this is my good friend IRL :wiggle:

    I have been telling him to break up with this girl for a LONG time now, and looks like he finally had enough :o

    I knew he wasn't completely happy and knew this would just drag him down in the end. I am glad he ended it before things got too serious (she had been talking about moving out together, engagement, etc.)

    I'll make sure he stays strong, 5 years is a long time. :hug:
     
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    You did NOT waste time! You probably learned a lot and probably had a lot of good times and created a lot of good memories. I will never understand the time wasting mentality.
     
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    Exactly. You're 24 dude, and the way I look at it, you've got some time to wild out a little bit and catch up on some fun before settling down again. ENJOY.
     
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    :hug: You are gonna be alright.
     
  16. Ari1979

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    Your relationship sounds 100% identical to a 3 year relationship I just got out of. After months and months of torment we finally let it go to live a little bit. It was very mutual at the time but she is now desperate to get back together. :hs:
     
  17. Sure why not?

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    This is exactly like my situation where I just got out of a 5 year relationship and the last 6 months have been hell. Turns out she was cheating on me. Only I'm 22, but now was forced to drop out of college (we shared an apartment) and move back home with my parents. Atleast I know some people will be home for thanksgiving and xmas and we can go out to the bars. And I know there was one girl who always was into me. But for now I'm stay busy helping my parents renovate the house for a wedding next summer.
     

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