I was dating this girl for 10 months (actually the longest i've been able to stay with someone) and she's always known that I don't completely trust her because I have my personal issues. Lately, we've been having some problems and we broke up a couple weeks ago but we both realized we wanted to be together. She has a male best friend that I've known about for some time but do not like. They've known each other since like junior high or something. She says they haven't seen each other in over a year but whenever I'm over just studying or something and they're conversing she always tells him that I'm over. I don't know what that's supposed to be mean...? I was over at her place earlier this week and got upset that she stopped in the middle of our conversation to respond to a text message from him. Later on, I was hesitant but decided to check what she was replying to. The message said, "I love you, you made my week". I wasn't happy at all with this and wanted to leave. I ended up staying because I didn't want to make a dumb decision out of anger. Fast forward to tonight and I told her I'm just not going to get over another guy telling you that they love you regardless of how good of friends you are. She refuses to compromise her friendship and we ended up breaking up. Am I selfish because of this? Am I wrong to ask that these things not be said? She said that she regrets being with me and I'm retarded for breaking up with her over this. She also said that it just shows that i have zero confidence and trust and all that stuff. Sorry for babbling and thanks for reading.