Just been feeling like shit about a lot of things and could use some advice...

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  1. JumboJym69

    JumboJym69 New Member

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    Recently my girlfriend of 2 years and I broke up because she said that she felt like she needed to expierence other things. That was kind hard for me but I was doing alright with it. Eventually we started just talking to each other again trying to be friends because she is someone who I cared a lot about for a very long time. Then she tells me that her and my best friend have been seeing each other and it is started to get serious. So obviously I fucking freaked out. For a while it was just tons of fighting and yelling between me and her. I totally ended my friendship with my friend not just because he was dating her, but because he refused to be a fucking man about it and say anything to me at all. So I deceided the best thing for me to do is not have anything to do with either of these people, no seeing or talking to either of them, nothing you know. I really feel like that is the best thing I can do and that has been going on for a while. But I am having a really hard time feeling better about all of this shit. And it's not that I can't find other girls but it is just different when you have been with someone that you really care about you know. I really don't know what else I can do, I mean I'm in radiology school and that is going really great I do really well and that is something that makes me feel better, I've stoped using drugs completely, and I try my hardest just to stay bussy trying to do new things with other friends and I've been seeing this girl for a little while and I do really like how things are going with her. But I can't help but feel like I am totally lost, and the worst part is that it's like I don't even know what I'm looking for. Also it's not just all of this shit that makes me feel bad, my mom has cancer and she isn't doing so well but its like there's nothing I can do about that. I guess I think just hearing other people's input on this would help me feel better about the entire situation. I would appreciate any advice you guys would like to offer. Thanks
     
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    You're doing the right thing. Fuck you boy for being a pussy whipped bitch and choosing a hoe over a bro. That's weak. Keep doing your own thing man, don't let them interfear in your thoughts and progress in your life with new relationships, it isn't worth it.

    PS: My thoughts are with your moms mang, that sucks dude. Stick by her side, she's more important than all of the hoes out there who have done you wrong. Focus on what's important in your life, those two sure aren't it.
     
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    AmCo Haters goin' Hate

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    time man all you need is time. you will slowly forget and move on.
     
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    First, split your post into paragraphs. Then I'll read it. :)
     
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    can't figure out how
     
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    Good move stopping the drugs at least.
    When I had a difficult time dealing with a breakup I turned to drugs which obviously doesn't help.
    What timespan between your breakup, her getting together with your friend and you dating this new girl?

    As AmCo said you do have to give it time... you unfortunately can't rush your emotional recovery. Good luck to you and your mum.
     
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    My heart goes out to you...it is a terrible feeling being lost/adrift. But, on the positive side, you seem to be making really good decisions and I applaud your efforts with your schooling.
    Be there for your Ma...she needs you, she might even deny it, but she does. I've been there, I know.
    Give stuff time. Some things take more time than others.
    My thoughts are with you.
     
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    well what do you mean by you are lost. sounds like school and your mom take up alot of your time...plus you are trying to stay socially active...and you are seeing another chicka.

    if your feeling lost because you arent with your girl then the only thing that is gonna help is time...you get used to her subconciously and only time will break those ties.
     
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    One of the things that bothered me so much about them hooking up is that we hadn't even been broken up for a month and they were already fucking. I guess what I mean by I feel lost is it felt amazing to care about someone as much as I did for her, and just really want to have that feeling again. But I know that asking for that this soon is asking for WAY too much.
     
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    This sounds as though it is really bothering you - my advice is to go see a professional counselor (your school probably has at least a couple) and just talk about it with someone - trust me man, there is no shame in this, and you might find it very helpful, just to really tell someone everything that is on your chest, and get it off. All the best.
     

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