Just a random birth control question

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  1. saiaba

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    ex-Gf has been on birth control the whole time we dated. I just found out this past weekend she had a miscarriage in jan.

    She has been on antibiotics for about 1-3 weeks. I know that increases the chances big time, should I be concerned at all, or not really?

    *secondary question*
    If a girl says they want space, and acts like two different people, and has new male "friends" then pretty much the sun has set on this relationship right?

    *side story..* She said she wants space, or otherwise it wouldnt be a problem because we WERE on our way to getting married (had talked it out, and were about to get back together) but apparently i don't think it is in her plans anymore.
     
  2. Mangina

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    I wouldn't wait around.
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

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    First of all, she needs to talk to her gyno. Most "antibiotics" make BC completely useless and pointless. The fact that she was able to get pregnant and then have a miscarriage shows her BC isn't working (that and I'm willing to bet you aren't using a condom :uh:).

    Secondly, when a girl asks for space it means she isn't into you anymore but just doesn't have the strength to tell you so. The fact that she has all new male friends is even more of a sign that she's trying to meet others. If this is your "girlfriend" I'd suggest you save yourself and move on. Sounds like you two have had issues (breaking up, getting back together, her needing space) and are young. Move on to the next girl, you two should definitely not even be thinking marriage with the lack of commitment you have.
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Just read your Asylum thread on her. Move on.
     
  5. Exiled

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    why would you wear one with a girl on bc


    isnt that the point of bc
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I'm glad your girlfriend won't let you sleep with her.
     
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    to be *sure* :dunno:

    I wear it with girls im not sure about even if i know they are on BC just because of STDs
     
  8. Exiled

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    She does, all the time.


    I wear one..

    Listen, you're pissing me off with that.. You have been with about 10 thousand more people than me. I do my own thing, I have been in maybe 2-3 relationships in my entire life. You seem to think all this fucking you've done and all these relationships you've been in are somethign everyone should already know. I dont go around on google looking stupid shit like this up. I go to work everyday, support myself and have my hobbys. I keep myself fucking protected and what I asked wasn't out of context in this thread.


    I THOUGHT that the REASON a girl would go on BC was that she wouldn't get pregnant and a dude could go without the rubber.


    Last girl I had, went on BC so I didnt have to wear one.. so what the fuck is your point beer? Tell me what the fuck it is
     
  9. Alaya

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    One of my good friends got his SO pregnant a few years ago and she had an abortion. Now he will only sleep with his girly with BC and a condom.

    Some people just like to be extra, extra safe :dunno: It's just doubling up on your means to prevent pregnancy.
     
  10. Exiled

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    Wow, really? Jesus.. guess you can't ever be safe..

    Then the whole porn thing I asked in that other thread messes me up. Dudes in porn dont wear them..

    Are the girls sterile or.. do they use some other form of BC?
     
  11. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rofl: You really do know me :hsugh:

    It has nothing to do with experience, it has to do with having a clue about safe sex practices. Yes, BC is almost 100% effective in preventing a baby, however, that's if it is taken correctly (and it isnt always taken correctly on top of the fact that it is still not 100% perfect).

    Just because a girl you are sleeping with is on BC doesn't mean you are free and in the clear. She could also have STD's that you have no idea about. She (like the OP's gf) could be taking antibiotics that you don't even know about that render the BC useless.

    You think the main reason women get on BC is so they can fuck without a rubber? :ugh: That's more what every man wishes. Women can go on BC for many reasons. Yes, it can give you more peace of mind that you won't get pregnant, but also it can clear up acne, regulate their periods :mb: In other words, just because a chick tells you "I'm on BC, lets fuck without a condom!" Doesn't mean you should go ":eek3: yeah awesome! that's a great idea! I'm sure she's totally clean, has been tested and takes her BC correctly so a baby or disease will never happen."
     
  12. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :bowrofl:
     
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    happened to me too. if there is ever ANY question about bc...miss a day...on antibiotics, etc. i always wear one. then the next month i am off the hook and back to pozing up her holes!!

    kidding
     
  14. just tat

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    my sister-in-law and my brother have three kids. to my knowledge, she was on the pill when she got pregnant all three times. (i have no idea if she was taking it properly, or not...)

    double up folks, nothing is %100
     
  15. Exiled

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    I didnt say any of that, I thought thats why women went on BC, not like i would fuck some random girl without one because she said she was on... it.:ugh::ugh::ugh::rofl::rofl::rofl:

    Acne? Are you kidding, the day I meet a woman who is on BC for acne is the day I :ugh: and realize she talks to her trash can too. I know that BC prevents pregnancy and if not done on time or right you can assume it's not going to work. I also thought the majority of woman (See, when I think of women and sex I think in a relationship with someone they love, not just whoring themselves out) they would typically use the BC as a method to make it so they can have protected sex where the man can go without it.. because condoms are terrible.
     
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    that is brilliant
     
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    well a lot of acne is hormon fluctation. and bc helps with that. also, some bc now helps with skin...ladies now what it is called
     
  18. Exiled

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    Sure, it helps.. but you're not going to do that for your acne.
     
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    god and why can't i spell...seriously, i am so fucking retarded when it comes to spelling
     
  20. iwishyouwerebeer

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    :wavey: I got on it at 16 to clear up my acne-which it did. So...yeah. I'd just listen to the advice in an open-minded way seeing as how others here have confirmed it's not failproof and not every woman gets on it so they can fuck without a condom. BTW, when did you finally start getting sex from the gf?
     
  21. Exiled

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    Ill try :hs:


    Last week on the sex thing.. relationship changed completely.
     
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    hopefully for the better
     
  23. Exiled

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    Yeah, definitely better... it was bothering the both of us.. and now with that out of the way everything is awesome! :bowdown:
     
  24. saiaba

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    I'm 26 that's not really considered young is it? but I guess I will finally listen to all the people that say to move on.

    edit: when she was still my gf, i asked her why she was on bc, she said it was because of painful periods and acne control.

    edit#2: So, everyone pretty much says its over and done, even if she is saying we have a future once she figures things out?
     
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