Dating a girl for about a month now and she seems a little different than what i have usually dated. We work together for one, so i take precautions in not wanting to ruin a good relationship just because we work at the same place. This girl seems to be very out there and is almost the total opposite of me. Im a city mommas boy whiles shes a redneck country girl. I guess thats where we kinda attract each other, cuz we poke fun of each others sayings and other little shit. Shes a very pretty girl who i know has a wild side just wanting to come out. Around each other at work we occasionally stop to see how each other is doing, you know say hi and what not. Out of work we are pretty much all over each other...which can be kinda fun cuz lot of people have no clue we are dating. Weekends we're usually together hanging out, checking out a movie or clubbin'. We've had sex once, though it was after the club sex Shes so sweet and seems so innocent, its a bonus that shes pretty good in the sack too I rented a log cabin for a weekend getaway next week. Shes so excited and i cant wait either. She said, "Dont tell anyone at work, it'll be our weekend"...I thought about that comment for a moment..for a minute my insecurities came around and I asked myself "why wouldnt she want anyone to know?" ....A question like that only comes up because in a past relationship i was cheated on. And i have fears of it happening again sometime. How can i look past the.... past? I dont want my dumb insecurities ruining anything i have going good.