Juggling multiple girls?

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  1. Nev

    Nev OT Supporter

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    Got outnof a relationship not long ago and being new on the single scene obviously has me talking to and hanging out with a number of different girls. Should I feel bad juggling a bunch of different girls around? I'm not trying to settle down with anyone at all right now. I'm thinking I should just keep havin fun but wanted to see some other opinions
     
  2. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    why feel bad ? chances are they are seeing a few guys too. Hell, it's MORE LIKELY simply because women have an easier time of getting guys.
     
  3. Nev

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    True. I'm just used to normally having a gf I guess. More is merrier now.
     
  4. HuskiRuski

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    eh i'm in the same situation and i kinda feel shitty

    i usually fuck up and end up blowing it/them getting pissed, and then i hit a dry spell until i find new girls to juggle/get with
     
  5. antihero

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    Just be honest with them before they get too attached, and you really have nothing to feel guilty about.
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Only feel bad if you are deceiving these women into thinking you are in real relationships with them.

    Bypass this from happening by being honest and up front with every woman you start seeing/fucking on a regular basis that youi aren't looking for anything serious or monogamous.
     
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  8. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    Well that's not even true. You can keep juggling up to the point where one shines out as a great choice. :dunno:
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Maybe he doesn't actually want a relationship though, regardless is one "shines out" :mamoru:
     
  10. D7

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    I'm glad you want to play the field for a while :h5:
     
  11. metakone

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    just don't get the details between diff. girls mixed up lol
     
  12. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    make up ONE pet name for all of them :eek3:
     
  13. thespazz

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    wrap it tight son.
     
  14. ant.foste

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    Be upfront and honest with them.
    Juggle 2-3 at a time. Dates are during the week, ONLY. Weekends are for finding a replacement. Out of the 2-3 being juggled, stop talking to the worse one and put the new-found replacement on the weeknight rotation. Repeat as necessary. Eventually somebody will stand out in a good way. If they feel the same way then cut out the multiples and focus on the one.
     
  15. Cobra Commander

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    when I came in here i was expecting the juggling factor to be aimed more towards your bed.

    out
     
  16. Nev

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    Right now I have 4-5 always wanting to hang out and have me stay over. I've been single for barely 2 weeks
     
  17. david5

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    Why feel bad?
    They play same games to!
     
  18. Yail Bloor

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    why would you feel bad for doing something many women do?
     
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    why were my posts deleted :(

    nev still has sex with dudes
     
  20. Franco

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    This effect will usualy last for about a month. You see when you are with a girlfriend other girls think "damn that guy must have something good" so they get interested. This effect lasts a bit after your relationship, then it dissaperas and you are just another single man again.

    So use it now and stay on top as long as possible.
     
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    :rofl: very scientific
     
  22. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    I couldn't juggle girls if I tried. Hell just throwing one in the air and catching her is hard enough.
     
  23. Savage5point0

    Savage5point0 Im an asshole.

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    :rofl: Good advice.

    If you are going to date (see:fuck) more than one or two girls at the same time, i have a few pointers that were learned through painful experience.

    1) pick one pet name and call them all the same thing, keeps it simple. Nothing like saying a wrong name after a few drinks or in the heat of the moment.

    2) dont offer more information than asked, if she doesnt ask what you did saturday night, no need to make something up. If you say you watched a movie, you will have to remember that lie forever, and they add up quickly.

    3) only let one of them stay over at your place regularly, you dont want them feeling comfortable enough to stop by for a surprise visit.

    4)LOCK YOUR PHONE. if you phone doesnt have a password, dont let it out of your reach. bring it in the batroom when you shower.

    5)if you phone is out of your pocket, keep it face down, nothing like laying on the couch with a girl and having your phone buzz on the table with a late night text from some other chick. Never put names in your phone either, just remember the numbers so if a call or text does pop up you can just say you dont know who it is.

    6) if they are pissed at you of you're avoiding them, they will come to your work to try to talk to you. Nothing wrong with sharing what you do for a living, but telling them "X store at Y department from 8-5 might not be the best idea.

    7) keep your computer shit straightened out, if you dont know how to log out of your email/facebook/myspace, dont check your shit on their computers.

    8) And probably the best advice, dont get into the situation in the first place. It can turn into an unbelievable headache.
     
  24. eurocarracer

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    just remember....lag between the vag :hs:
     
  25. Nev

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    these are all girls ive met in the past 2-3 weeks who didnt even know i had a gf.
     

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