Is this necessarily a bad thing to do to girls? I have 3 girls I guess you could say that I am "talking to" right now. Girl 1: Met while I was dating another girl about 9 months ago. GF and I broke it off because long distance sucks and she is a bitch. We get along really well. Hang out a lot and enjoy the same things. She is really cute and fit. Always liked her and she has known it. Hooked up once while kinda drunk and got into deep conversation about our feelings toward each other. Then things went south. She is scared of relationship but still talks to me like she wants to date. Girl 2: Met at a wedding we were both in a couple of weeks ago. Hit it off. We get along really well. Cute girl. Kinda just been talking a lot ever since the wedding on the phone like 2 hours every couple of days. I like her, but I am not entirely sure about dating someone of her magnitude I guess you could say. Girl 3: Met at a party about two weeks ago. Talked pretty much the whole party to her. She is cute. Kinda ditsy but not dumb. She likes to party and go out as do I. She makes really good conversation. Don't really know her that well. Didn't end up getting her number at the party because I had to leave without notice to take care of some things. She got my number from a friend and started to text me about a week ago. Word on the grape vine from friends is that she likes me and wants to see me again soon. The real problem right now is that all of the things that are going on with these girls is going on at the same time. None of them know about each other or have mutual friends. They are all at different maturity levels in their lives. I am going out a lot more right now in life than I have in a long time due to the fact of having a larger income and a new group of friends. While going out I am constantly meeting new girls every weekend. I don't like doing one night stand deals. I think sex is more enjoyable when it is with someone you care about than a strangers. Girl 1 I could see dating because she likes to go out and have fun like I do. Same with Girl 3. They are still in college and live that life. Girl 2 is out of college and working on her career. She is really the more mature one of all and more serious about things but does have like to have fun. She just could not probably keep up with my fast pace lifestyle right now. I don't really want to turn into an asshole in this situation. I like being in relationships but at this point in my life I like being able to do what I want with out having to answer to anyone. I still feel lonely at times when I see my friends and their GFs out.