Heres a quick little story that teaches a good lesson. A few weeks ago, I was at a bar I frequent on Friday nights. I'll mention that I'm into country dancing. Anyway, there was a very good looking girl who kept making eye cotact with me and smiling. A couples dance starts and I see her standing and watching, so I aproach, ask her if she knows the dance(she doesn't), I take her hands, and we start dancing. We get about a 1/4 of the way around the dance floor and a guy(her bf) grabs her, pulls her away, and says "I don't want you dancing with anyone". I see him take her away from the dance floor, probably to bitch at her. Didn't see her for the rest of the night. One week later I get to the bar and notice she's there, and don't see the bf in sight. She walks by me a few times but I was talking to a few people. A few minutes later I see her standing around, so I aproch and bust on her about what happened the previous week. She starts laughing and says that was her EX. Long story short, I got her phone number. Lesson learned? Jealousy and insecurity will kill attraction and your relationship.