I've been dating this girl named Emily for a year and a half. Around last January, I felt she was moving things way too quickly (she started talking to me about moving in, I wasnt ready, etc.), so she agreed to slow things down a little for me. I thought things were going well, but she said that I wasnt giving her the same involvement/commitment she was giving me. Well, we've been talking about these things for a couple weeks now, and I just feel like I've lost the feelings that I had. I feel like a complete asshole for this. I've talked to my friends, mom and dad, and even a co worker, and they've all said the same thing. These kind of things happen, especially to someone as young as you (21). They say I'm still young and most everyone has had to go through this at one point in time. I know its going to be hard, but I dont think we can salvage this relationship. I cant deny how i feel (or dont feel in this situation), and I'd only lead her farther in if I keep going. I guess I'm just afraid that either I will completely devastate her or i will regret my decision and wont be able to get her back. I told her on saturday night that I needed a few days to get my head straight and sort things out. I still dont know what to do. Any suggestions?