I've forgotten how relationships work

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  1. black jesus

    black jesus OT Supporter

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    I went out with a girl friday, saturday (the planed date), sunday, and didn't leave the house until monday afternoon. I haven't done anything like that since highschool; I typically go out with a girl, hit it, leave at 4am, and talk to her in 6 weeks if ever again. I've propably had 50-80 one-nighters like that over the past 5 years, and no real relationship type material. This girl is bad ass; I may have met my match on this one...we get along really well.

    I like this chick alot, and apparently she's into me too, but I don't know the next step. Do I go out with her again this weekend, or play it cool and call her next week?

    I think she may be cool, but I don't want to spoil it by coming on too strong. It doesn't help that I turned 25 on sunday. I need to chill out right, and call her next week, not this week right?
     
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    relax and take it as it comes.
     
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    Do what feels right, but don't come on too strong. I would recommend waiting a few days ... 3-4 at the least - before calling her back. A plus would be if she called you.

    I also would not tell her how strongly you feel about her until it's confirmed she feels the same way.

    So much to learn, huh? :)
     
  4. black jesus

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    I thought I should lock this shit in on a wednesday though, rather than wait to long and screw myself out of a date this weekend. I agree that I should wait a few more days, but I do want to set something up for this weekend.
     
  5. chica&buddies

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    i would set something up for the weekend. it's wednesday, sounds good to me. i mean, if you spent the whole weekend last week together, chances are she'll want to make plans with you. ;)

    my advice? to make this work, get to know her before taking it to a hardcore sexual level. that means, get to know them more than just a week. the relationship WILL last longer. :)
     

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