ive been pondering this for a while

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  1. quid

    quid I Piss Excellence OT Supporter

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    why do girls always think that the only reason you are attempting to talk to them is sex?
     
  2. skitcy

    skitcy uhm title! ok

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    Because half the time it is true until you give them reason for it not to be?
     
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    Jennipher Dontcha know OT Supporter

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    Because often it is the case. :hs:
     
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    why else would you talk to them?
     
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    quid I Piss Excellence OT Supporter

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    how do you give someone youve never met a reason for them to not immediatly think "he is attempting to meet me, he must want to rape me"
     
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    quid I Piss Excellence OT Supporter

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    to meet more people, increase number of friends, a list of other reasons.

    the planet doesnt revolve around sex...
     
  7. Dos Equis4

    Dos Equis4 nebraska democrat (oxymoron?)

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    girls, generally speaking, are not good friends. A lot of them are two faced emotional basket cases looking for a crutch to lean on and just need some one to give them attention.

    I know a lot of girls who are not friends with any girls because girls.. in general.. are just bitches.

    Me personally, i dont think i have a girl that is 'just a friend'. It always turns into something else.
     
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    Girls are better friends to guys than they are to other girls. Or so it seems. It depends on the girl we are talking about.
     
  9. quid

    quid I Piss Excellence OT Supporter

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    its just frustrating to hear women bitch and moan that guys are all dirty man sluts and only want sex, then dont give anyone the time of day.
     
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    because its pretty much always true...there are very few girls i know that id attempt to continue a conversation with unless i wanted 2 fuck em. same w/ every other guy (unless they dont want to admitt it and keep up their good guy charade).
     
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    thats how men get sex
     
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    depends on the context of the meet. in a bar or club, it is typically the case.
     
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    I have a few female friends I guess.

    But none that are all that close or that I spend any amount of personal time with.

    The only female I can stand is my GF. And she hates women.
     
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    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    :werd: Also depends on your approach, your language...

    Actually the only females I know that ever assume things like this are the slutty ones...and they arent just assuming, they are hoping.
     
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    purplebeast The depths of hell and endless torture await all h

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    cuz its true.
     
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    Are you speaking from experience on being a "good guy" ? Or are you just assuming?

    Yeah, things run through my head when I speak to women. But it all depends on the relationship I have with this person. I talk to women all day at work, and I don't even think about sex with em.

    For some of us, the want to have sex comes after getting to know the person and realizing it would be a great thing.

    Note women, realize that not every guy is like the above quoted one. Lauren and RedVsBlue have my backing on this one. The setting has a lot to do with it.
     
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    In the words of Chris Rock... anything you say to a woman translates to "want some dick."

    You may talk to women on some level at work or friends because of the setting, but if you're approaching women 99% of the time it's because you find them attractive.
     
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    im not going to try to meet ugly people, male or female.
     
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    That is just messed up to even think, much less say. That is just absolutely shallow.
     
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    For a relationship to happen, there has to be at least some physical attraction - at least to get the ball rolling. That's the truth, take it or leave it.
     
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    Culture evolves faster than evolution..........
     
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    quid I Piss Excellence OT Supporter

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    i never said i refuse to, i said i dont go out of my way. i know / have a lot of friends that i dont consider attractive. most were met in a class, or friends of friends. unless you try to talk to every single person everywhere, there needs to be some sort of filtering method. appearance is the easiest. you cant exactly filter by personality.
     
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    the question is,"why do girls always assume you are hitting on them" then you say you won't talk to ugly girls because won't be in a relationship with them. So what you are saying is you will only talk to girls that you want to be in a relationship with. which means you are hitting on them. This is how I am understanding it. If I am wrong please let me know.
     
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    There's nothing wrong with that?
     
  25. Sionell89

    Sionell89 I grew up when I wasn't looking

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    Case in point. No one need say any more.
     

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