...when the person you love the most tells you "you make me feel bad about myself". Don't understand where it comes from...I tell her often how beautiful she is, and how much I love her. Then out of the blue I get this? I sure don't understand girls sometimes. Backstory...she was working out on the treadmill tonight, and I was sitting on the couch (I had worked out earlier). Noticed the treadmill hum got a bit different...only asked her why she slowed down (wasn't sure if she was in pain, or if the machine was acting up...it sometimes speeds up on its own, so I figured it might slow down on its own, too.). She fires back with "I'm struggling, OK?!". I said, "sorry", and went back to watching TV. After she got done she fired off the above comment. It's not the first time I've heard it, either. Just sucks when you try to edify someone so much, and they don't even appreciate it, twist what you say into something negative, then fire back with "you make me feel bad about myself". What ever, I guess. Sorry for the rant.