It is even possible to be friends with your ex, after she cheated on you?

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  1. quamen

    quamen New Member

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    Well my ex started talking to me again for the first time yesterday. WE were together for over 1 year and had a great relationship. She was at a party one night and her ex bf was there, and yeah you can guess what happen. They slept together and she told me this the very next day. I lost it and dumped her. Now about 5 months later or so, she is apologizing becuase I wouldnt give her the time of day. I believe A: she wants to be freinds or B: get back together, can someone chime in if I should even bother being friends with her?

    That is the worst part, we werent just like bf/gf we were best friends we shared alot in common.
     
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    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    do you WANT to be friends?
     
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    quamen New Member

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    i actually do want to be friends with her
     
  4. modelcitizen

    modelcitizen New Member

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    Both Billy Crystal and the Ladder theory take precedence here. Fark her. There are plenty of other, equally cool girls out there, I promise you. I went through the same thing. She cheated once, she'll do it again, only next time she'll just need some space for a month
     
  5. purplebeast

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    I was able to truly be friends w a ex that cheated onme (she denies to this day but I know better than that)



    It did take about 3yrs before we could be friends.
     

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