what a let down, i tried everything, fingering her starting with one then 2, going down on her to get her loosened up a bit and still, it didnt fit. she's only had sex 2 times before and she said he wasnt as big as me, but im not even big and definately not girthy.. she was well lubed and everything. so now i have no idea what to do. she said i made her bleed and she was in a ton of pain i felt so bad. what do i do?