issues with "no action"

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  1. volvoc70

    volvoc70 New Member

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    well basically the first two months were great we were all over each other and i was getting all i wanted. well we had an awkward situation where well.. i couldnt get it up for some reason i was rock hard then once she went down on me i went limp as a hose. well i figured i wouldnt put the moves for like a week or so to put the awkwardness behind us and then well we just started hanging out a lot with friends and such were it was hard to well.. do stuff. basically it was actionless for 2-3 months. and then once i had good chances on putting moves i didnt or couldnt cause it felt awkward and almost like i didnt want to. its been 1 month and i really want to get back on our action course. i know she wants to its just i know she expects me to put the moves and i almost again feel like i dont know what im doing. i want to talk to her about it but idk how to bring it up. anyone want to offer me any advice?

    i know this is an awkward ass situation. im sure a lot of you will just say move on to another relationship but i truly love this girl and she loves me back and i want to make it work.
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    You are way too in your head and single-handedly fucking this relationship.

    She's not going to make a move, because at this point she is so insecure that you aren't into her sexually she doesn't want to take a chance to get turned down.

    Act like a man. Jump her and get shit back on track.
     
  3. haargerman

    haargerman ayuh.

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    You're thinking about it too much, and you psych yourself out.

    Anxiety is a bitch
     
  4. just_another_on

    just_another_on New Member

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    You serious?

    Act like the typical horny 18 year old...
     
  5. XxvODvxX

    XxvODvxX New Member

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    This.
     
  6. Abomb

    Abomb New Member

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    take the weak way out and buy some cialis
     
  7. just_another_on

    just_another_on New Member

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    Or just hand me your man card now bro, up to you :dunno:
     
  8. Abomb

    Abomb New Member

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    JAO has a big ass wallet. its getting full but I think he can fit a few more man cards in there if he tries.
     
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    The girl is feeling awkward as fuck since you went limp in front of her and then wouldn't put any moves on her afterwards. The solution is very simple, man up!!
     
  10. THoC

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    its been months since you've had sex? you better man up before she thinks something is wrong with you OR she loses interest in you and finds someone else who will fuck her.
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    Ngas dont know son :h5:
     
  12. Deepsouthwrx

    Deepsouthwrx If in doubt, flat out!

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    pop a viagra and throw her on the bed and do it.
     

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