Wasnt really too sure how to title this, but I am suffering from a problem Ive had for aloooooong time; I lack the ability to be AS social as others can be. One of my biggest issues, is that I can go to all these parties and whatnot, but I dont drink alchohol (just cant find the taste enjoyable). So that puts me in a very awkward spot, since once most of the crowd has gotten tipsy or whatever, they usually find their own little groups and go into their own worlds, making it hard for me to really "participate." Only a few times have I actually been successful at actually joining in with a few of them, but usually ends in failure, usually by them just splitting off. Oh man, I never realized how hard it is to really even maintain a convo with another girl that Ive met for the first time. I try and try, but I just cant seem to figure out how to keep their interest level. I guess it goes back to that "nice guy" thing. Dont get me wrong, Im nice to an extent, but I cant find myself trying to be otherwise. Outside of parties, for example, Ive read about that PUA? stuff, like just randomly walking up to girls and just start talking, I just find that to be really creepy, and thats why I havent found myself capable of doing that. Yea, I guess whoever is on the recieving end might think it's a balsy thing to do, but In my mind, I think it would be pretty creepy. CLIFFS: Im the guy in the back you see at parties and want to learn how to not be..